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Old 02-19-2012, 11:57 AM
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I have been talking to this woman who is older than me and lately she always seemsto be depressed. She says she is sad and doesn't really know why anymore. I just want to know what I can do not to come off as an AFC or anything. I'm new to this PUA stuff so I'm kinda inexperienced. Any help would be great.


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Hey there!

My last girlfriend was almost exactly like this. She'd usually be in an upset/depressed/quiet mood.


I usually find women like this to have some depression issues, however.. This is only a minor detail you mustn't worry about.

Women of this sort are usually more emotional, need Comfort, optimism. They need to feel loved much more than other girls you might have been with.


Take control (alpha male trait), ask her if she wants to do / go to something at whatever date (just set a date, and if it doesn't work for her, she'll let you know when she's free).



When they're "sad and don't really know why anymore". It could be some sort of remorse, or mixed emotional display of an old boyfriend they don't know how to feel about now.


Take her mind off of that, by showing what an awesome guy you are.


Make sure that your emotional connection with her is better than your rapport connection. Otherwise, you'll seem AFC.


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Thanks man...yea I don't realy think rapport is great with her just yet, that why I didn't want to come off as an AFC.


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