Revelation : too happy/energetic is that my problem? please help me fix

Hello,

Ok So i am in my early twenties im always happy and everyone is always commenting how strangely energetic I am. I got a decnt job straight out of university and everything at least seems to be going well, I am not shy and I can pick up women at a club without too much problem, not saying I'm im some magical god given talent PUA but I do alright but and I can get laid without too much of a struggle

...here's the PROBLEM and this has existed for as long as I can remember.

Getting into a relationship is very hard for me, especially with the people I have known for a while. I still don't think its a friend zone issue but many women that I want to date, are addicted to me, but it not in a relationship way, but more of a have fun type of way. When i enter a party, I always have women rushing towards me yelling my name (guys too lol no homo) but when it comes to a relationship time, it doesnt seem they are interested.

Also at work I'm the youngest, and although I should be more quiet about my social life, people know I am a party animal, and I often speak feely of my one time encounters I have. Yet... for some reason the older woman there are treating me as their child, and calling me cute etc.... WTF!!!!

Why does this happen, how did I end up with this cute label, or this fun parting guy who cannot be in a relationship. Am I too happy, too positive, do I party too much, I have to be doing something wrong but what?

Please help me because its killing me!

If you are looking for a relationship, you need to find one girl and show her that you have a serious side as well. Maybe you need to open up more with a girl you like and let her find out nore about you. If you are looking to get a girlfriend, this should be easy if you don't have trouble picking up girls.