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Old 02-21-2012, 01:05 PM
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Smile What should I make of this reply she sent me back??

Hey everyone,

This is my first post on here, I just registered, been lurking for a while, and I got a lot of good advice and confidence from these forums, I would like to first thank everyone on here for that.

So I decided to try the online dating thing, since its pretty slow and boring in my town and I am not going to school having graduated hs last year.

I set up a profile on ok cupid, took the same pic from my fb, wrote a good summary about myself making it clear I like doing fun things, travel, adventure etc etc.

I had just finally started to message girls lately, and my first one just a stupid "hey hows it going" of course got no reply, she was barely even a 6 tho anyway, basically I've been messaging anyone hot even if they aren't 100% my type, just to get some experience.

So I would read their profile and just compliment them on something ,sometimes just make a quick joke or comment, and just end it, those types of messages have seemed to work with at least 80% replying.

ANYWAY, crazy thing is there is this cute HB in my town I met about almost a yr ago, only saw her 2 or 3x, each time lightly flirted, but I thought my friend a yr younger than me who would always pick her up to chill was trying to go for it, but he hesitated and even though they would meet up at 4 am and all in the summer he never made his move, and she complained to some mutual friends about this,

Around then he would kinda try to see what I thought of her, I always said shes tooo young (shes 3 or 3 1/2 yrs younger than me) and he was like yea thats why I didnt wanna make my move and I was just laughing on the inside, hes just a poor AFC

So weird thing is she looked at my profile on okc yesterday and I saw this a few hrs later, and messaged her on there, at first I was gonna be like hey wtf you doing on this damn site -- your not 18 or some sh1t but I stopped my self and came up with this sh1t:

(in a way I now I wish I just said hey - what the heck are you doing on here to get a better convo going,) what i wrote-

"hey its really funny cause I could swear there's this mad chill girl who also lives in (my town) who like just grabbed the exact same picture as her fb profile mad quick like I did, just to put it on this lame ass site and see whats good, and I think her name started with an A also, it's just such a bizarre coincidence, but since your 18 I guess I must be thinking of someone else right?"

And she writes back this morning :

"yeah its really funny cause I dont know if u recall but I'm friends with [(my AFC friend), (c, another long time friend of mine) and v (c's gf of 2+ yrs now)] nd weve met a few times, and I'm not18 .nd yeah this site was a stretch for me nd I don't enjoy it much at all "


I doubt she would be coming on here, but I didn't want to use their actual names cuz ya neva kno


so how should I even respond? Is she pulling some kind of slight sh1t test or something here?


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Old 02-25-2012, 02:16 PM
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Default Re: What should I make of this reply she sent me back??

If it was me and I wanted her I'd give her a try:

"Wow, that is really funny! I've only met a couple interesting girls on here, but your right, I'm not too into this site either, much rather meet people in person"

She should give you some response like "I agree blah blah blah it's much more interesting in person I just came here cuz blah blah blah..."

To which I'd just suggest she meets up to catch up: "I completely understand. i gotta go now, but we should catch up it's been a little while"

at this point if she agrees, you exchange info and meet up, if she doesn't write back, you tried and move on as if nothing even happened.


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Old 02-25-2012, 03:20 PM
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Hey, that would have been much better, I guess I just kinda blew it, but I don't really care, honestly right now I don't know if shes interested or what, and I feel like I am in an awkward situation considering shes like 16 and I am 19, don't want want to com across as a creeper, so I figured I would try to make it more friendly seeming, not like I was trying to hit or her or anything, rather just tease her a little for being on the site. but we all know that wont get us nowhere by just being a "nice guy", oh well.


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Old 02-25-2012, 06:44 PM
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