04-10-2012, 12:46 PM
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| | Re: How to transition from comfort to seduction.
Hell yes I'm right, thanks for the witness Brothers..
Let me go on to add that head and the hair are enormously erogenous zones without being considered overly "fresh" when having established a moderate amount of comfort. Hell many women will let you stroke their hair within a few minutes of interaction if the attraction is high enough. This is primal stuff that we humans have been doing for not hundreds, not thousands, but millions of years.
So my goal whenever I start any pick up is to escalate my Kino to the point where I am running my fingers through their hair. This is why I like long hair on women. It is a physical attraction switch you can flip just as easily as Leadership of Men, Protector of Women, etc etc. Want to make your girlfriend happy after a bad day? One day, best after a bad one, surprise her with a nice brand new hair brush. Explain to her you bought it and she can only have it on the condition that she lets you brush her hair. Make sure it has nice soft bristles so it doesn't get tangled in her hair. Then just sit her in front of you, maybe in front of the TV for example and brush her hair. Do this once a week. You'll never go without sex again and alot of domestic problems get solved this way. This is natural stuff, why are we humans forgetting nature so much? We PUA's are primal men.. we should remember to think in these terms more often.
Anyway, back to pickup context, Once you have spent a few minutes running your fingers through their hair, or stroking their short hair.. move to the back of the neck. Gently brush with your fingers where the hair meets the neckline and add just a little pressure to lightly knead the muscles in her neck.
I was watching a nature show about Gorillas and this male silverback would go over to his favorite female and sit next to her all the time. Then, he would put his arm around her for a while. After that he would begin stroking the fur on her back between her shoulder blades. After awhile of this he moved his hand up and stroked the back of her neck.
You could literally see the female responding by moving closer to him, leaning against him and cooing. It was amazing stuff to watch I was absolutely blown away from the PUA standpoint because I had seen this very thing go on in bars all across the city but never thought of it in intellectual terms before.
I immediately said Eureka! and the next weekend I was performing the exact same pattern on every pickup I've done since and my success rate shot through the roof. I called up every girl who had ever put me in the friends zone and invited them over to my house for dinner. I cooked for them, then began escalating the kino. At first some of them resisted but eventually they all broke down and screwed me.
I never again had to worry about routines, or dhv stories other than following Tyler Durden's 25 points and a few zingers I particularly liked.
This is one of the reasons I came back to the PUA community after so long. I wanted to share the startling discoveries I have made with other guys who I know are probably going to through a little bit of hell starting out.