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Default How to get into the social circle at college

So basically I am reading Mark Redman's book conquer your campus.

It's all well and good except he makes one assumption, that we are all already a part of an in group.

Well, far from it, I am not even in any group. I live 50 minutes away from campus with my parents and so I don't have room mates or anything. Also, I have had very no friends throughout my entire life (i'm 20).

How can I rise as an alpha male when I'm not even in a tribe?



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Aight Bro, here's how I see it. People want to meet you. Not some fake you, but you, your genuine self. And if they don't like you then don't sweat it, there are plenty of people in college. Also, clubs are a good way to make friends, it's easy to make friends with common interests. Just don't be somebody you're not. I know you will hear this all the time but it's true. Let people accept you, everyone may be just as nervous as you.


 
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Aight Bro, here's how I see it. People want to meet you. Not some fake you, but you, your genuine self. And if they don't like you then don't sweat it, there are plenty of people in college. Also, clubs are a good way to make friends, it's easy to make friends with common interests. Just don't be somebody you're not. I know you will hear this all the time but it's true. Let people accept you, everyone may be just as nervous as you.
My real self is very introverted and uncaring, or otherwise always frustrated. Those are obviously not attractive qualities, which is why I am trying to change my real self. However, I still don't know how to get into the circle, after I make a few contacts branching should be easy, but making initial contact, getting invited to a party seems like a big hurdle.


 
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So introverted people don't have any intrests? Bro almost everyone that gets into pua is very introverted at first and they want to change that. They way to change that is by talking to somewhat extravorted people and u start with something u know. Know what u like ar what intrests u find some talckative people that have the same intrest and start convos with them, sooner or later u'll start talking about almost everything with almost everyone.


 
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So introverted people don't have any intrests? Bro almost everyone that gets into pua is very introverted at first and they want to change that. They way to change that is by talking to somewhat extravorted people and u start with something u know. Know what u like ar what intrests u find some talckative people that have the same intrest and start convos with them, sooner or later u'll start talking about almost everything with almost everyone.
Actually I don't really have any interests. I use to be very into physics, maths, philosophy, psychology, evolution, theology, classical music, classical sculpture, and I spent at least 10 years of my life brooding on and reading about these things. I got very good at one point, but it wasn't a common interest that many others shared, and the ones that did share it were themselves unsocial misfits. Usually people talk about their favourite TV show, or food. But I don't watch TV at all. And my opinions are very different, complicated and hard to communicate. I've been through all sorts of extremes, and don't even remember half of what I used to like or believed in.


 
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Actually I don't really have any interests. I use to be very into physics, maths, philosophy, psychology, evolution, theology, classical music, classical sculpture, and I spent at least 10 years of my life brooding on and reading about these things. I got very good at one point, but it wasn't a common interest that many others shared, and the ones that did share it were themselves unsocial misfits. Usually people talk about their favourite TV show, or food. But I don't watch TV at all. And my opinions are very different, complicated and hard to communicate. I've been through all sorts of extremes, and don't even remember half of what I used to like or believed in.
Bro with practice u could become a pussy magnet:

_First off every girl in the world is interested in psychology and more specifeecaly social psychology (differeces between men and women, why people have social masks what actions mean what, body language) because basically they want u to flip it around on them they want you to understand them, they want to know how society perseves them. women are like that they are social creatures use that knowledge to show them u understand them on a deeper level than other guys.

_Philosophy, girls love an intellegent guy with an opinion especially when he knows how to deffend his point of views and beliefs. U just have to sculpt urself in a way not to appear like a know it all douch bag, a guy thats obsessed with beeing right, a weirdo or a geek.

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But I don't watch TV at all. And my opinions are very different, complicated and hard to communicate. I've been through all sorts of extremes, and don't even remember half of what I used to like or believed in
Sorry but start watching tv shows u should like how i met u're mother and game of thrones.Plus i didn't understand what u mean by both extremes and how do u not remember what u believe in maybe clarify with life stories.

_Get pandora's box u would get the NDR TDR NJR types of girl soo easy.


 
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Bro with practice u could become a pussy magnet:

_First off every girl in the world is interested in psychology and more specifeecaly social psychology (differeces between men and women, why people have social masks what actions mean what, body language) because basically they want u to flip it around on them they want you to understand them, they want to know how society perseves them. women are like that they are social creatures use that knowledge to show them u understand them on a deeper level than other guys.

_Philosophy, girls love an intellegent guy with an opinion especially when he knows how to deffend his point of views and beliefs. U just have to sculpt urself in a way not to appear like a know it all douch bag, a guy thats obsessed with beeing right, a weirdo or a geek.

_ Sorry but start watching tv shows u should like how i met u're mother and game of thrones.Plus i didn't understand what u mean by both extremes and how do u not remember what u believe in maybe clarify with life stories.

_Get pandora's box u would get the NDR TDR NJR types of girl soo easy.
Hey Xavier,

Yeah, actually I do realize that some level of introversion is perceived as hot by women, because it signals creativity. In-fact, from grades 6-10, at least 8 girls had said they loved me. But here's why I rejected them...

About the extremes thing. Well basically I grew up in a religious family of Doctors. Very conservative. They would change the channel when a kiss came up and tell me to look away at the beach. But three years ago I became a complete Atheist! Recently after graduating school in top 1% of the country I nearly got kicked from university, that's something that never happens. I've also changed 5 countries and countless schools so haven't led a very stable life (inside OR out).

Man, you make it sound so easy, but I can't get pussy unless I can get access to it first, which is my problem. cold approaches won't work in university. I have to make myself known. And I will add Pandora's box to the reading list.


 
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why are u getting kicked out of universities any way bad grades or is it something ?


 
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why are u getting kicked out of universities any way bad grades or is it something ?
I'm not getting kicked out now, but I almost was because of bad grades.


 
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since u're into psychology u should know what the proper way to engage a group is and how to be an alpha male and u're a smart guy so why don't u aply urself? Getting with women feels awesome i can't even tell u how good u'll feel when u get u'r first Number Close. C'mon bro it is those who push themselves and those who are willing to face humiliation that become champions.
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