08-17-2012, 04:14 AM
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| | Girl accepts date, then they all cancels
I do daygame and I have done it for like 3 weeks. I was not terrible to begin with because I have a good confidence and social competence. So I approach 8-10’s and get numbers 60% of the time. However, 3 times in a row now the girl has accepted to go take a coffee, and then the same day that we are supposed to meet all 3 of them have cancelled with lame excuses like “I don’t feel like getting into something right now” or “my Ex troubles me and I don’t want to bring you into it because you seem so perfect” bla bla. I send her back like "im not trying to marry you, it's just a coffee". So I haven’t gotten a single date yet because 3 out of 3 who agreed to meet cancelled.
I know it’s a tough question, but do you guys have any ideas what I could be doing wrong?
Here is how I do my daygame:
I approach her direct by giving her a compliment, she stops, smiles and we greet. I ask her what she is up to and a few other questions. I make her laugh during the interaction but without being a clown. We talk for about 5 minutes and usually the girls are interested and asks me a lot of questions aswell. I don’t do a lot of Kino and the conversation is kind off basic/fun. I tell her we should meet up for coffee sometime and that we should exchange numbers. She types in her number and I give her a hug and we say our goodbyes. The day after I text her something that makes her smile and we send 2-3 texts to each other before I ask here “How about coffee tomorrow or the day after?”. She agrees and then cancels :P