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Default How to reply to a cougar that says "you're too young"?

Hi,

I have been dating women older than me (I'm 26) in the last four years, some of them were cougars that were hunting younger people and some others were older attractive women that never expected this could happen. There was this point in which they liked me but just draw a mental block and said "You're too young".

I have replied in several ways to that question and some of them have been successfull, such as:
"I'm too young for what? I know older guys who behave as children and young people who act as a real man"
"I understand that you're not comfortable feeling older but I don't have a problem with that"

Once again, I'm in the mood of dating older attractive women and I'm sure this question will pop up. It is not about the question but the mental block they put.
The best thing I can do is act as a man and show them that age is not a problem but I want to know your opinion about "how to answer to the question, and destroy this mental barrier".

Cheers

Walker



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just say 'yeah I notice...poor you" say it in a playful manner!


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its clearly a test to get you to try to qualify yourself, you need to answer back with something like "well maybe your too old" though it may seem a little childish it once worked for me to turn the tables and get her seeking your aprooval


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I've dated several older women, and to get past that, cause they almost always say that, I've just usually paraphrased what mystery says in The Game:

'Oh ok, well ill give u a minute to get over it then.' Kind of joking but not looking for a laugh. Its worked pretty well for me.
Or sometimes I just say something like 'ya I know' or 'it is quite a difference' and just continue the conversation and building rapport, attraction, comfort, etc.

Hope that helps a little, cheers man


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As long as you act as if it is not a big deal...then she will not bring it again!


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Default Re: How to reply to a cougar that says "you're too young"?

Hi guys,

Tried Mystery's approach and also behaved like it is not a big deal and it worked perfectly.
This is definitely the best way to pass this barrier when approaching cougars or women who don't feel comfortable with an age gap.
Thanks a lot for your recommendations.

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Right on ha, good to hear man


 
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As long as you display a cool and collective vibe...girls (mature women included) will respond to your energy. I have notice that women will not even care about what you say...they will just respond to your enthusiasm and luck of Approach Anxiety. Those that know me in persona...have notice that I have an accent, but girls will just laugh and vibe with me...just by my demeanor and my complete disregard for what they think about me!


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Default Re: How to reply to a cougar that says "you're too young"?

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Hi,

I have been dating women older than me (I'm 26) in the last four years, some of them were cougars that were hunting younger people and some others were older attractive women that never expected this could happen. There was this point in which they liked me but just draw a mental block and said "You're too young".

I have replied in several ways to that question and some of them have been successfull, such as:
"I'm too young for what? I know older guys who behave as children and young people who act as a real man"
"I understand that you're not comfortable feeling older but I don't have a problem with that"

Once again, I'm in the mood of dating older attractive women and I'm sure this question will pop up. It is not about the question but the mental block they put.
The best thing I can do is act as a man and show them that age is not a problem but I want to know your opinion about "how to answer to the question, and destroy this mental barrier".

Cheers

Walker
U have to have a big pair to this but it will work better than anything else and i'll explain why in a sec, tell her 'U need to get farked!' I guarantee she won't say it again and will get her hot here's why:
Older women love bold younger guys, a bold young guy is the bad boy he's the guy that doesn't give a fark and it goes with his youth. If an older guy did that he would come of as immature and just rude. trust me when i was 19 i dated a 29 yr old.

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Default Re: How to reply to a cougar that says "you're too young"?

A girl told me "you're too young" a few years ago, she was only a year older than me.

So I said to her "Too young for what?"

That shut her up and got a smile out of a hot girl trying to bitch me off .


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