07-29-2013, 03:19 PM
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| | How Long Do Women Go Without Sex?
Let's say you meet an HB7-10. Have you ever thought...I wonder how often she needs sex? I feel like knowing the average amount of time women go before they hook up with someone would be somewhat helpful information to know.
Take this situation for example: you met the HB7-10, she dates you a few times. You have already n-closed to get the dates. K-closed on the dates, but never F-closed yet.
She's known you only a few weeks. But she starts to get distant and waits for you to contact her and tries to play impossible to get, maybe even just plain disinterested. So if she's a girl that can't go more than a few weeks without sex, and she's not talking to you as much now, what does that say to you?
To me it says she's over you, not going to give it up to YOU, but she's needing it just about then too...so what's she going to do - probably hook up with the next guy that can k-close her. Wouldn't it be possible that sometimes if you don't play your game perfect as a PUA and have a few AFC moments that maybe there are girls you're not f-closing just because you caught them while they weren't needing it? I'm not saying you didn't mess up, but I imagine lots of us do a DECENT job at the game, well enough to think we'll f-close and when it doesn't happen I often think of this: had I kept the tension and kept myself on good terms and went distant myself she would've came crawling back when she wanted sex.
What I'm getting at is that I feel like sometimes you can just completely exit the game and thereby bypass a lot of BULLSHIT. If you find a girl that's just fresh out of a relationship or something (she's definitely hooking up with her ex, she doesnt WANT to tho), she isn't really craving sex. So if you manage to get close to f-closing her. You should completely back off. Why not just leave it at a peak and cut most of the chit chat to avoid killing the tension of that f-close and diverting it to boring convo (whether you are keeping it fun as possible or not).
If you just go cold, not only does it show you aren't needy for the next step, but you also leave it in a place where when she finally needs that sex fix, she's going to either find a brand new guy, text him all over, blah blah blah - na, that's a waste of her time, she's got you, the guy she was nearly down to do it with but didnt need to so she left it close, and you have been mysteriously gone (to her that means you've got other girls)...all of a sudden it makes sense that you are the perfect candidate, and you become that hook-up.
Food for thought.