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Unread 07-29-2013, 03:19 PM
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Default How Long Do Women Go Without Sex?

Let's say you meet an HB7-10. Have you ever thought...I wonder how often she needs sex? I feel like knowing the average amount of time women go before they hook up with someone would be somewhat helpful information to know.

Take this situation for example: you met the HB7-10, she dates you a few times. You have already n-closed to get the dates. K-closed on the dates, but never F-closed yet.

She's known you only a few weeks. But she starts to get distant and waits for you to contact her and tries to play impossible to get, maybe even just plain disinterested. So if she's a girl that can't go more than a few weeks without sex, and she's not talking to you as much now, what does that say to you?

To me it says she's over you, not going to give it up to YOU, but she's needing it just about then too...so what's she going to do - probably hook up with the next guy that can k-close her. Wouldn't it be possible that sometimes if you don't play your game perfect as a PUA and have a few AFC moments that maybe there are girls you're not f-closing just because you caught them while they weren't needing it? I'm not saying you didn't mess up, but I imagine lots of us do a DECENT job at the game, well enough to think we'll f-close and when it doesn't happen I often think of this: had I kept the tension and kept myself on good terms and went distant myself she would've came crawling back when she wanted sex.

What I'm getting at is that I feel like sometimes you can just completely exit the game and thereby bypass a lot of BULLSHIT. If you find a girl that's just fresh out of a relationship or something (she's definitely hooking up with her ex, she doesnt WANT to tho), she isn't really craving sex. So if you manage to get close to f-closing her. You should completely back off. Why not just leave it at a peak and cut most of the chit chat to avoid killing the tension of that f-close and diverting it to boring convo (whether you are keeping it fun as possible or not).

If you just go cold, not only does it show you aren't needy for the next step, but you also leave it in a place where when she finally needs that sex fix, she's going to either find a brand new guy, text him all over, blah blah blah - na, that's a waste of her time, she's got you, the guy she was nearly down to do it with but didnt need to so she left it close, and you have been mysteriously gone (to her that means you've got other girls)...all of a sudden it makes sense that you are the perfect candidate, and you become that hook-up.

Food for thought.



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Hmm interesting, reserving my spot here to follow this thread.

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They probably get sex once or twice a week minimum but if you ask them they will tell you they have not had sex for a year


 
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That is a great question, the ones that call other girls hoes I've noticed tend to be hoes themselves. Honestly ive met a lot of girls that have surprised me as not getting sex much at all and others you would think are innocent and are nasty as all get out. If you do get with one you are curious about, Covino and Rich (Great radio show every man should listen to that used to come on Sirius Stars too, idk if it is on anymore) came up with a system to estimate what a girls number is, as in number of dudes shes been with, not for sure on exactly what they said but it is a guess so its all good. So, when and if she tells you what her number is, you do this little system to get a better idea, cause all girls lie, also if she doesn't tell and your just going off the cuff this is a good deal. If she is shaved you add 3, if she has a bush you subtract two, tramp stamp you add 5 automaticly, other tattoos you add 2, hangin ham (shutter) you add 4, makes the move for sex add 3, kinky add 3. There were other ones on subtracting but not many, its better to over estimate than under estimate!


 
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When a girl first becomes sexually active, say at age 17. If you estimate that on average that she has had two partners per year ,which would be very conservative, it would mean that over a 10 year period she has been with 20 guys.

There are guys on this site that EASILY have sex with 20 girls in LESS than 2 months.

Girls have FAR more sex than they readily admit to because society judges them in the wrong way if their numbers deemed to be too high.


 
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I like your guys' input. But I wasn't totally referring to the number of guys they slept with in the past. I was more saying that every girl is SITUATIONAL.

Every girl you meet has a "last time I had sex". Whether it be the night before, a week ago, two weeks ago, a month, three months, a whole year. But then every girl must also have a relatively avg # she can call her "I have to have sex now" #. As in: it's been 3 weeks, I need to find a worthy quick hook-up or someone who I can do the thing with for a few weeks so I can get my fix for a while and then drop him and use my 3 week grace period again to try and find a real prospect to pick up the slack for next time.

The most intriguing part of what I was saying (at least to me) is that depending on the girl and her situation, it's very possibly that as a PUA you can bypass a period of the game with her all together if you could somehow read her "I have to have sex now" limit. If it's three weeks and she has been talking to you a lot in the past 2 and you haven't f-closed but things are going swimmingly and you did k-close and can still get dates. Then why even contact her during that last week? Why give yourself a chance to lose a hand.

I'm saying, when you are at the table, and your chip stack is the highest it's been. And she's holding a small stack. Why call every hand unless your the big blind? Why not fold out for a while and let the cards do their thing until you get another AK, KK, or aa. Or until she get's a A5 but has a small stack so she goes "all-in". And that's when you call her with your big hand and win the pot.

A little metaphor there but hopefully you see what I mean. There seems to be an either short or long period (depending on the girls need for sex and her current situation) where you needn't contact her at all if you've played your game well so far. You can just exit the game for a moment and safe yourself any possibility of screwing things up. You can almost be 100% sure she will contact you again if you've left things hanging on such a high note. And when she does, you might just see that it happens to be when she's finally getting itchy for some sex. And there's been other guys she's talking to but women like a confident/non-needy guy (you've proved both by escalating the relationship and then not begging for more and just doing your own thing for a while), so she's not going to go find some new chump and run her tests all over again, etc etc, when she's got a perfectly good candidate for a fark still on the burner. She's going to send some ioi's I bet and try and get YOU to be that hook-up.


 
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Default Re: How Long Do Women Go Without Sex?

I see, well I get what your saying, haha if only it were that easy. Girls walking around with a number over their heads, just have to pick the one you want and go, "Oh this ones ripe and ready to pic, ey you!" haha, what a great world this would be


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