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Unread 08-13-2013, 12:24 AM
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Default advice Please- 1 date, flakey hb next move?

Hey guys here's my situation; met a girl, got her number & she texted me a week or so later wanting to meet up. We went for dinner, first time meeting up so closed with just a hug. But there was definite chemistry so we agreed to do it again. I was out of town that weekend and she texted on the sunday making small talk and we agreed to meet up during the following week. We had planned to do something early in the week but she had to cancel and then invited me out thursday (to meet her brother even) but I in turn had to cancel myself. We were going to meet up friday, though I was leaving town again and we ran out of time and she was feeling sick that day so it didn't happen. Saturday she texted me apologizing for being flakey and said she wanted to see me again and we agreed to get together the next week. The next weekend I was in town and we were supposed to go to a football game together and she found out at the last minute that she couldn't go as she was heading out of town this time and couldnt change plans, so we went for lunch before she left on Friday(she even paid)-THIS weekend I am going out of town AGAIN for a wedding and I texted her today asking if she wanted to help me shop for a gift to which she replied she's too busy at work this week and is working late- which she did mention to me the other day. I did not text her back yet. So I'm trying to figure out my next move, since this has been such a mess schedulewise I'm not sure if she's not interested or if I should ask her to come over for dinner or just meet up before I leave this weekend again(obv I dont want to sound needy) its a confusing situation because its just as much me who has been cancelling and too busy to hang out but when we have been together theres alot of flirting and laughter and we enjoy eachothers company. Any advice is great thanks: again there hasn't been any heavy petting yet but there hasn't really been the opportunity to doso and I want to keep the chemistry going. We've been texting back and forth regularly- she takes a long time to reply sometimes but always addresses it



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Unread 08-13-2013, 08:21 AM
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Default Re: advice Please- 1 date, flakey hb next move?

Of the two of you always be the less needy one. Don't be upset if she cancels, act unaffected. Next, don't give up on her just yet unless you want to, no woman goes through that much trouble to lead a guy on. She digs you. Now act on it. Make solid plans and ensure that YOU don't cancel. Then if she flakes again, freeze her out for a week, if she bails good riddance, if she misses you and texts a lot, I'll bet next time you make plans she'll make it work. Win win. Cheers.

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Default Re: advice Please- 1 date, flakey hb next move?

Thanks alot, I appreciate the help. It's tough when you don't want to sound needy but at the same time you need to keep the chemistry going and keep it exciting. I figure I will neg her and say Im going to blame my crappy wedding gift on her and see if she can meet up before I go for the weekend, if not no worries.


 
Unread 08-14-2013, 05:39 AM
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Yea, you just gotta understand that the lack of attention works in your favor if she is already interested. If you've done your job as the PUA, your lack of neediness will drive her crazy and make her want you more, if she doesn't she didn't want you like that in the first place and you haven't lost anything. Happy hunting

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