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Old 06-18-2011, 04:43 AM
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Hello PUA world.

I got a funny situation and i would appreciate some advice with this chick, or if anyone have had similar situations.

Ok so i met this girl last night at the club, we were talking and getting to know each other basic stuff, she told me at the very beggining that she got a bf. I told her i was cool with that, so we hang and dance etc.
So later i asked if she wanted to come with me, because we were really enjoying each other and having a good time, she also told me that she feels like she has known me a long time blabla.. i took that as an Comfort ioi.

So we left together and we were waiting for a cab over an hour, making out and playing around. HERE comes the curve ball, like minutes before the cab arrived she sayed that she needs to go and she dont want hurt his bf blabla, i totally understand and i walked her to her bus station.
She asked my number and sayed that she wants to meet.

How should i approach from this on? Anyone got any similar experience?

sorry for my english, thanks p'z!

And oh yea, this girl is like HB9 and really nice!


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Old 06-18-2011, 10:19 AM
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Default Re: She wants but she cant?

She really seems into you. I would let her know she needs to figure out stuff with her bf first before you guys see each other again. I mean what's the point of seeing each other right now while she has a bf...


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Old 06-18-2011, 10:47 AM
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Default Re: She wants but she cant?

I often read in PUA sites like this that PUAs in general don't care if a girl is already in a relationship. :S

It's like, seduce and dont care about the other guy...
rules of alpha and stuff
is this the general opinion or....?


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Old 06-20-2011, 07:16 AM
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Well, the girl decides what she wants. If she acts like shes available it's on her.

Steel-O, I understand that and i dont wanna push my self between them at any point. It is between them to handle their relationship, i was just tryna figure out should i just let her be and wait if she contact me or not.. I already told her that there is no point meeting while shes dating but she was like "even as an friends?" basic girl logic


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Old 06-21-2011, 01:38 AM
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I would say go for it man. She obviously doesn't respect her bf that much seeing how she made out with you and gave you her number. Bf's get out alpha'd everyday. He should have been being a boyfriend and been out with his girlfriend. Sounds harsh, but I say take it. Sounds like its there to be taken.


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Old 06-24-2011, 09:34 PM
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I would say go for it man. She obviously doesn't respect her bf that much seeing how she made out with you and gave you her number. Bf's get out alpha'd everyday. He should have been being a boyfriend and been out with his girlfriend. Sounds harsh, but I say take it. Sounds like its there to be taken.
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Old 12-01-2011, 05:58 AM
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Default Re: She wants but she cant?

Just wanna take this up to let ya'll know that this same girl contacted me after few months and wants to meet up.
I didnt keep any contact to her.


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