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Old 10-09-2011, 10:29 PM
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So im pretty young (18) and new to going out to clubs in general
The other night I was fortunately approached by 2 chicks they initiated conversation and everything but I ran a few problems. I made the stupid mistake of asking them their age they were 23,24. So they ended up guessing my age and over predicted and started guessing at 24 which i found was a complement but the obstacle made the comment " jeez i dont want to be babysitting"when she found out my age. I managed to change topic. I made the attempt to use the routine "did you know 95% of girls masturbate in the shower..." which was an epic fail. I later ran out of topics to talk about and and had trouble progressing the conversation any farther. So I ejected quickly before the conversation truly started to die.
So these are my questions

  • The obstacle who said "jeez your so young I dont want to be babysitting", is this a Sh1t Test, am I supposed to neg her in responce?, what would be the proper way to respond to this or over come it?
  • The fact that they approached me means there interested should I still use routines? how can I properly apply them? and how can I keep coversation going, what topics should I use to keep conversation going and how do I avoid the conversation "stalls"?
All comments appreciated, any extra advice for what to do or how to think about this would be much appreciated.
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I definitely think it was a Sh1t Test. The age thing is really not that big of a deal man. I fooled around with girls that were 23-25 quite a few times when I was 18(I am 26 now).
I also most recently slept with a 33 year old women at the age of 26. So... I would have said something like " Yeah? I think you left your cane in the bathroom grannie." or "Its o.k. I have had to tell my babysitters to keep their hands to themselves my whole life. Is it going to be the same with you?"

The second one is prob. better, but an older girl is definitely going to take more negging and more dhv's and a higher social proof on your part if you want to get somewhere.

If I were you, I would cut the thing about girls masturbating out entirely. I don't see that impressing any girl at any age. Just trying to help man. It sort of made you look even more immature in that situation. In the future, I would work to replace that with stories that are going to DHV.

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Old 10-10-2011, 09:53 AM
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Yeah, i think it was Sh1t Test but its harder--not impossible-- when you're not 21. I've always dated older women ---I'm only 26--- so its definitely not a complete buzz kill. I think what's helped me is that I've always been more mature for my age and it has helped overcome that obstacle.

As for the approach, i agree with In The Tropics. I get good success with "is it cheating if you never get caught?" then follow it up with story that relates to that question. Girls really seem to like this one. And remember if the conversation gets dry just move on. No one bats 100% and its her loss. Hope this helps.


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Thats great advice In The Tropics, and big mig really appreciate it
Do you think i should stick to routines the entire conversation or "freelance" a little?


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I think everyone should freelance some man. Routines are better for if you get stuck and for opening sets in my opinion.

It's better to start making your own routines and Opener also.

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Default Re: over come an age comment and situation analysis

This is by far one of the easiest sh1t tests to overcome. Think about it, she is simply bating you to defend yourself and in return give up cred and power. So simply flip the rolls. My standard line on when someone makes some comment about me being young is , “yea I know… why don’t you take a quick moment and get over this whole age thing.” Say it with a smile, and be fun about it teasing her along the way and youll push past it no problem. Give it a try and let us know.

And as far as “freelancing”, man a direct and free way of talking to girls is by far the best. Not to mention it’s the most honest which helps with any potential relationship later.


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