So im pretty young (18) and new to going out to clubs in general
The other night I was fortunately approached by 2 chicks they initiated conversation and everything but I ran a few problems. I made the stupid mistake of asking them their age they were 23,24. So they ended up guessing my age and over predicted and started guessing at 24 which i found was a complement but the obstacle made the comment " jeez i dont want to be babysitting"when she found out my age. I managed to change topic. I made the attempt to use the routine "did you know 95% of girls masturbate in the shower..." which was an epic fail. I later ran out of topics to talk about and and had trouble progressing the conversation any farther. So I ejected quickly before the conversation truly started to die.
So these are my questions
- The obstacle who said "jeez your so young I dont want to be babysitting", is this a Sh1t Test, am I supposed to neg her in responce?, what would be the proper way to respond to this or over come it?
- The fact that they approached me means there interested should I still use routines? how can I properly apply them? and how can I keep coversation going, what topics should I use to keep conversation going and how do I avoid the conversation "stalls"?
All comments appreciated, any extra advice for what to do or how to think about this would be much appreciated.
Thanks