Wouldn’t it be cool if you could log on to a dating site like Match.com and literally have your pick of which girl you wanted to hook up with? Well, if you’re anything like me then that sounds pretty freakin’ awesome…
But for most guys this is just a fantasy that never comes true.
The fact is that most guys who try online dating end up quitting pretty quick. They decide that it’s just too hard to meet girls online or they make up some kind of excuse for why online dating can’t work for them like You’ve got to be really good looking to get a date on there.. or Girls on dating sites want guys with money..
Well I’m calling B.S. On the excuses!
I know for a fact that many average looking, broke and even unemployed guys on sites like this TOP PUA Site are hooking up like rock-stars on all of the dating sites… Because meeting women online isn’t about looks, money, height, or any of those things.
But you already knew that, right?
Really, attracting women and getting dates online is pretty much the same as attracting them anywhere else. It’s just a matter of showing the ladies that you have the studly character traits that all straight women are biologically programmed to be attracted to…
Character traits like:
Back bone
As you know, no woman wants to mess with a dude who is scared of her or who acts like he isn’t going to be able to deliver the ìgoodsî when the time comes… So it is VERY IMPORTANT when talking to a woman online that you never sweat her or act like she is doing you a favor by talking to you. Instead it’s up to you to play the man’s role and confidently lead your interaction forward.
A strong sense of self
A strong sense of self is one of the most attractive qualities that a guy can have. This is something that I don’t hear a lot of people talking about, but it is very important. Basically what this means is that you know who you are, good points, not so good points, and everything in between, and you are cool with it, you accept yourself and feel comfortable in your own skin. One very effective way of expressing this online is to share quirky facts about yourself in your profile.
You never want to write really bad things about yourself. But sharing funny things that other people might be embarrassed about shows women that you are secure in who you are.
Humor
Being a funny guy doesn’t necessarily guarantee that a woman is going to be ìfeelin’ youî like that. But, if used correctly humor is a great way to make a woman feel comfortable with you and help you get her to let her guard down so that you can connect offline.
Teasing a woman online is by far the best way to get the ball rolling with some momentum, and it’s really easy to do…
Just grab the most interesting thing out of her profile and make a little joke out of it. For instance if she writes about how she waitresses in a divey-bar that you know of, then you could write about how you think that the place is too upscale for you and how you always feel so under-dressed whenever you go in there.
This type of easy banter shows her that you are confident, and she will assume that you must have experience talking to and dating other hot women.
Demonstrating these traits online might sound tricky, but it’s not. I teach guys how to do this stuff everyday so that they really do have their pick of women online…
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I always go for the humor angle! Every girls profile lists sense of humor as a trait they look for in a man. And another tidbit of info, I always wait for her to give me her number. I don’t ask, I just mention how it sucks that the conversation is so slow cause we can only message and leave it at that. You’ll get a number or facebook or something.