My 'Wingwoman' is a Couger,
She was a friend of my Moms and I have known her for years but have no Sexual Interest in her whatsoever, quite simply because she is too old and also not hot enough.
Although I'm not going to hurt her feelings by telling her that.
She is in the friend zone and that is where She is staying, as I've never tried to lead her on or ever given her any false hope that the Situation might change.
In fact I've never kissed her or even held her hand.
So to be honest we use each other to our mutual advantage.
The reason I hang out with her, is because She is more Mature and Sorted than some 'Hottie' so I've always got a Companion if I need one, without all the complications that Relationships tend to bring.
She's a really great 'Dinner Companion' who knows how to behave when we go out, although after a glass of Wine She always flirts her ass off with me, which is a bit of an 'ego boost' if nothing else.
Where for my part according to her, I not only get her out of the house but also make her life more interesting.
So as I have already mentioned in another Post, I tend to control my Social life rather than let my Social life control me.
As I really don't want the hassle anymore and if I manage to pull a Hottie then after making out with her, I very quickly lose interest as they tend to take up far too much of my valuable time, when I would far rather be restoring one of my Cars.
But if you haven't got a Girlfriend or find it hard to get one, then going around with a Couger will certainly help build your Confidence as well as those all important Conversational Skills.
The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least