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    Default LMR

    LMR or Last Minute Resistance is when a girl suddenly gets cold feet before sex or kissing after much escalating and ioi's. Usually caused when in the company of friends, the think they're being to quick, or afraid of the consequences of the interaction. Ways to combate it are to Isolate or use Takeaways to build attraction and fear of loss.

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    Default Re: LMR

    Hi BadMedicine,

    What is the best strategy for dealing with LMR from a girl (with a boyfriend) who allows almost anything which is supposed to happen prior to a KC, but which looks down, and lower her head whenever I go for the KC using almost any strategy? I have tried to KC her, but ended up kissing her hair instead, on a number of occasions.
    Thank you

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    Default Re: LMR

    Quote Originally Posted by Lovesting View Post
    Hi BadMedicine,

    What is the best strategy for dealing with LMR from a girl (with a boyfriend) who allows almost anything which is supposed to happen prior to a KC, but which looks down, and lower her head whenever I go for the KC using almost any strategy? I have tried to KC her, but ended up kissing her hair instead, on a number of occasions.
    Thank you
    Such as what? What do you mean by "allows almost anything which is supposed to happen prior to a KC"? Your question can only be answered if you provide more specific information regarding your situation with that girl and what exactly you did in order to escalate to the KC.

    One thing for sure, you can't go directly to KC her. Don't forget she is socially conditioned and you need to make her feel very comfortable before you can properly kiss her. Stat with touching her on the arm, then the little back, then the leg outside, top, maybe the inside, then the neck, caress her her. Start kissing smoothly the shoulder, then the neck and always look her in the eyes. Only then, when you feel no resistance to all that, you look her deeply in the eyes and draw her to you with no hesitation - and kiss her. If she turns her head away, smile at her and back up a little bit. Talk some more - about other things than the kissing, of course - then start kissing her again at the lowest level and escalate again. All this can take a while but you gradually reduce resistance that way and at the same time increase Tension until she won't be able to resist anymore. If you go too fast, you'll lose her and risk getting another chance right away. Whenever she's refusing you escalating, just smile and don't react frustrated. She needs time and you will have to understand and accept.

    Good luck!
    sedux

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    Default Re: LMR

    Quote Originally Posted by sedux View Post
    Such as what? What do you mean by "allows almost anything which is supposed to happen prior to a KC"? Your question can only be answered if you provide more specific information regarding your situation with that girl and what exactly you did in order to escalate to the KC.

    One thing for sure, you can't go directly to KC her. Don't forget she is socially conditioned and you need to make her feel very comfortable before you can properly kiss her. Stat with touching her on the arm, then the little back, then the leg outside, top, maybe the inside, then the neck, caress her her. Start kissing smoothly the shoulder, then the neck and always look her in the eyes. Only then, when you feel no resistance to all that, you look her deeply in the eyes and draw her to you with no hesitation - and kiss her. If she turns her head away, smile at her and back up a little bit. Talk some more - about other things than the kissing, of course - then start kissing her again at the lowest level and escalate again. All this can take a while but you gradually reduce resistance that way and at the same time increase Tension until she won't be able to resist anymore. If you go too fast, you'll lose her and risk getting another chance right away. Whenever she's refusing you escalating, just smile and don't react frustrated. She needs time and you will have to understand and accept.

    Good luck!
    sedux

    overall, thats good general advice, but I would only add one cautionary note. not necessarily intending this to be aimed at the op (who, im sure, is long gone by now), but meant more as general advice concerning LMR.

    by being cooperative and easily accessible only up until the close ... but maintaining the pattern of intense ioi after bouncing you ... in reality the girl may be intentionally trying to NEUTRALIZE you.

    the technique is designed to function like a glue trap.

    the objective of the perpetrator is simply to see to it that you wont have the requisite energy to expend the effort required to engage in a set that would probably yield reciprocation.

    she dishonestly uses IOI to stay in your frame, and then, like a vampire, she absorbs all the energy of your game, bounces your close, but stays in your frame, only to lure you into trying to game her again, and again, and again. as time passes, and the night grows shorter, this leaves you drained and empty-handed for all your dutiful effort ... and all without a single consequence for her fraud.

    and make no mistake, the technique IS executed with malicious intent, but because the mens rea is not overt, this technique can be very difficult to detect, and therefore, particularly effective. her objective is your energy, measured by your time. the more of your time she monopolizes, the more of your energy she has drained. its as simple as that.

    there are a few reasons why girls behave this way, one of which being a healthy dose of NPD! I wouldn't be surprised to learn that dopamine is released as a result of engaging in this form of fraud.

    but whatever her reason, if it can be determined that there is a deliberate mens rea driving the LMR, then you must abandon her in totality. it turns out to be the best, and only answer.

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    Default Re: LMR

    Those are some interesting points, justadude!

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    Default Re: LMR

    Alamar to me is Last Minute Resistance it means right before you're about to have sex woman feels nervous and scared she feels this for many reasons

    -NickP


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