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    Default IOD - Indicator Of Disinterest

    A verbal or nonverbal sign or action that a woman does to show she has no interest in you or has lost interest in you during the interaction. This is the opposite of an ioi.

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    Default Re: IOD - Indicator Of Disinterest

    do we not have a list of IODs?

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    Default Re: IOD - Indicator Of Disinterest

    Quote Originally Posted by Anteep View Post
    do we not have a list of IODs?
    This would be helpful.

    I think one is where she starts playing around with her cellphone.

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    Default Re: IOD - Indicator Of Disinterest

    Why are we bumping these super old posts...

    You should be able to tell if a girls giving you an IOD. It's obvious, to me at least. If she's giving you ioi's then she's most likely not giving you many IODs.

    Pointless thread imo

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    Default Re: IOD - Indicator Of Disinterest

    okay... no need for a list and redunduncy... if she's not giving you an ioi you up your game or move on... dont look for negativity... keep working n getting an IOI.. if after some time you cant detect any of those and you feel like you're wasting your time... then leave...
    dont you EVER look for the negatives... your mind will just look for them... and you'll be confused

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    Default Re: IOD - Indicator Of Disinterest

    There does not appear to be a list for something like this. Fortunately, I have a good amount of knowledge and experience in detecting this. Failure brings about learning, which brings about knowledge in turn. Here is what I believe to be IOD's:

    In Person
    • Body turned away from you
    • Has phone or other object out and engaged with it
    • Appears annoyed or bored with the current interaction
    • She shuts down intimate moments
    • She keeps her distance from you in an interaction
    • Direct eye contact is usually avoided
    • Her friends come and swarm you, usually involving her departure


    Text and Phone
    • Responses are often short
    • Message response time ranges from very late to never
    • Emotion appears to be lacking in the conversation
    • You are always the one initiating the interactions
    • Phone cuts to voice mail after 4-6 rings (2 rings to connect, 2 for her to respond)
    • An offer to talk over phone is ignored with no response
    • Friend requests are ignored and rejected after a long length of time


    General
    • She tells you that she is not ready for a relationship
    • She says she wants nothing serious
    • She gives you the "let's just be friends" speech
    • She curbs sexual escalation
    • She constantly seems to be busy when you ask to make plans
    • When plans are made, they are very vague and easily broken
    • Her former exes are openly discussed with you
    • Acts of chivalry and being a gentleman are rejected or shown no appreciation
    • She expresses her interest in your friends or other people
    • She tries to set you up with other people
    • She does not show genuine humor in your jokes
    • When she describes her ideal man, it is exactly not you
    • You've never been to her place
    • She is rude to you
    • She says she is taken with or without any proof
    • Mutual friends tell you that she is not interested
    • She manipulates and uses you for personal entertainment and higher gain
    • She invites her friends along to any plans that are made
    • She tells you what her friends think about you, and it is not good
    • Her friends and family have never heard about you after a long length of time
    • She doesn't freak out when you hit on her friend, or when you freeze her out
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: IOD - Indicator Of Disinterest

    but it also should be noted that if shes married and someone she knows walks in the club that would tell on her it could be a instant switch from ioi s to iods but i agrees with ColonelMathus better to just look for ioi s.


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