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    Default Re: BF DESTROYER

    Quote Originally Posted by RuthlessRuckus View Post
    Just because we can invent and build counter-missile structures doesn't mean we should facilitate the creation of nuclear bombs.
    All's fair in "love & war".... but NOT in "life itself".

    My point is, whether you agree with using the BF destroyer or not, (which I've gone on record to say I personally couldn't use it myself) BUT... the fact is IT WORKS.

    So, if there's a reason why it works, there's also a reason it can be prevented from working.

    The best defensive approach to anything, is to have a better OFFENSIVE approach. Meaning, you have to know ahead of time what you're up against. You have to take a PREEMPTIVE strike before anything happens.

    Accept the fact that the BF Destroyer works. Then, Learn how to crush it before it even creeps up. (Kill IT before it it has a chance to set foot in your territory.)

    The funny thing is, it ISN'T that difficult to "immunize" your girl so she doesn't fall for that technique.

    Just sayin.


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    Default Re: BF DESTROYER

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    All's fair in "love & war".... but NOT in "life itself".

    My point is, whether you agree with using the BF destroyer or not, (which I've gone on record to say I personally couldn't use it myself) BUT... the fact is IT WORKS.

    So, if there's a reason why it works, there's also a reason it can be prevented from working.

    The best defensive approach to anything, is to have a better OFFENSIVE approach. Meaning, you have to know ahead of time what you're up against. You have to take a PREEMPTIVE strike before anything happens.

    Accept the fact that the BF Destroyer works. Then, Learn how to crush it before it even creeps up. (Kill IT before it it has a chance to set foot in your territory.)

    The funny thing is, it ISN'T that difficult to "immunize" your girl to that technique.

    Just sayin.
    The issue isn't that I'm losing women to this technique. If we're being honest I have no women to lose.

    I just have moral objections to trying to break up a relationship (or creating damage) simply because I want the girl. There's plenty of single girls out there. Why get involved in established relationships?

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    Default Re: BF DESTROYER

    Exactly!

    I'm TOTALLY with you on this one. But I can't ignore the fact that there ARE guys who have the ability to do that.

    That's why I would recommend to EVERY GUY that they read & learn about it to understand how it works.

    Discover the way it exploits any vulnerable spots. Then, look for those weak points in their own relationships & fix the cracks.

    I really don't condone getting in the middle of a relationship. BUT... to play the Devil's Advocate, I must bring up an exception the the rule.

    If there's a girl in an extremely abusive relationship, and SHE is the recipient of the abuse..... do you let her stay there?
    Especially if you're interested in her....
    (AND... 10x especially if you know how to get her away from that, by using a BF Destroyer technique?)

    Or do you Make the move & do the right thing by getting her out of there?

    There's always an exception to every rule, as far as "pickup" goes.


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    Default Re: BF DESTROYER

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    Exactly!

    I'm TOTALLY with you on this one. But I can't ignore the fact that there ARE guys who have the ability to do that.

    That's why I would recommend to EVERY GUY that they read & learn about it to understand how it works.

    Discover the way it exploits any vulnerable spots. Then, look for those weak points in their own relationships & fix the cracks.

    I really don't condone getting in the middle of a relationship. BUT... to play the Devil's Advocate, I must bring up an exception the the rule.

    If there's a girl in an extremely abusive relationship, and SHE is the recipient of the abuse..... do you let her stay there?
    Especially if you're interested in her....
    (AND... 10x especially if you know how to get her away from that, by using a BF Destroyer technique?)

    Or do you Make the move & do the right thing by getting her out of there?

    There's always an exception to every rule, as far as "pickup" goes.
    Me personally? I'd next the hell out of her. If your self-respect is that low that you're willing to suffer all manners of horrific abuse from someone you think you love then there's going to be all kinds of issues in building a new relationship. Plus, like Hell am I taking a knife from some pissed off abusive ex-boyfriend.

    Those women are usually more trouble than they're worth.

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    Default Re: BF DESTROYER

    Just because you pull a girl from abuse, doesn't mean you have to hook up with her.


    It just means that AFTER you crush the BF.... it's all your choice from that point. If you're into "dramatic events" then you're all set.

    Or, you can just be doing a "good thing" to help someone see how bad they have it, since THEY can't because they're blinded by fear.

    That's an unlikely scenario for sure. But the REALISTIC one is; if you don't know how it works, & WHY it works... then you run the risk of becoming a victim by proxy.


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    Default Re: BF DESTROYER

    Yep, always a controversial one... But I think it reaches the core of the PUA stuff: what are you ready to do for sex? how far is too far? what do you really want?

    As for me, already have lost a girl to that kind of things, already have taken girls with that kind of things. My personal rule is: "be ready to give her as much as you take from her"

    If I make her quit a serious relationship, I have to be ready to take her to a serious relationship. If she is married, I won't break anything unless i'm confident I'd be ready to marry her.

    Doesn't mean that it will happen (you can become the rebound quite easily if you're not careful), but at least i'm honest with myself.

    I actually find the situation "I would really love to date her but she has a bf already" a loooooot less difficult than "she has a bf already, and I don't really want to date her, but I would REALLY frak the hell out of her". How do you have the sex with a bf-girl without having her break up? Now that's a challenge


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