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Originally Posted by learninglegend Direct is ALWAYS the best way to go for day game.
Basic opener
Hi + [pre-frame] + [compliment] + [qualifier]
e.g.
"Hi! [I know this is a bit random] but, [I saw you walk past and I think you're really cute], so [I had to come over and find out something about you]."
Introduce yourself and get her name
Transition
Transition techniques
1. dhv story - talk about a random thing that just happened to you.
2. cold read - tell her something about herself based on something you notice about her / the kind of "vibe" she gives off
3. Questions as statements - instead of "where are you from" say "I can tell you're not from around here" or jokingly "I can totally see you're from Nigeria" when she's white and blonde
4. If you literally can't think of anything, then at least asking what she's up to today will give you some time and maybe she'll say something interesting you can work with. It's better than just standing there saying nothing!
Putty in your fingers. Don't think of it as the woman has to accept you. Think of it as, you are testing her, and if she doesn't meet your standards, you know in 1min and move on. |
I'll give livinglegend props by agreeing and saying direct is always the best way to go. Everything else you said sounds canned. Now I'm assuming that those are JUST examples you posted here and not what you tell every girl you use it on. But if you are using techniques, it is not direct.
Direct game is fluid. It is unpredictable. It is dynamic. Direct game doesnt mean not giving an eff. What you meant to say by not giving a rats ass is not letting outside factors affect you.
Direct Game = Staying true to your intentions and being yourself.
That means you need to be you whether you like it or not. You don't have to stop each woman you meet and tell her what your about to say is random and then proceed to compliment her. Tho its a great way to start. Tell her how she makes you feel. Not what you think she wants to hear. That is pivotal becuase I know you guys will read this and still tell her what you think she wants to hear.
Being direct is just doing what you want. Just don't be stupid. If you do something stupid then obviously you'll get what comes to you.
You can't really give examples of direct game because its what you do. Its who you are. It's not scripted or planned. Trust me, you'll understand when you get used to it.
If your gonna DHV, is it because you feel like she can learn from it or because your trying to move on to the next step of seduction.
If your gonna cold read, is it because you want to impress her and think you need to do it to get her to think your cool or just because you were like "hey, lemme show you something cool".
Everything livinglegend suggested is cool but it depends where your coming from. He might have meant it just to be an example but most of you will think they are guidelines and then you would have missed the point entirely.
Basically when you have direct game down, you will stop doing things to expect something to happen in return. Whatever you do will be a routine in itself except its not planned or scripted at all....its just you.......