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Common Pick Up Terms

. Confused By All The Pick Up Jargon? Then You've Come To The Right Place. All The Acronyms You've Heard About Can Be Found Here.
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Old 03-26-2011, 10:42 PM
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The key is to act like you don't care, your not desperate you can get any women any time.

Why do you think men with g.f's or wives get women? They don't care!! If they bomb out they just go home and get their d1ck sucked


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Old 03-26-2011, 10:44 PM
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dame it! I doubled post. How do I erase a post? I'm Asian and computer illiterate


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Old 03-27-2011, 03:24 PM
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The first was pain. I was new. She's foreign. But after that, the rest were whatever.

I saw the 3rd the day after. I got her to talk. She laughed. Should I count it as good recovery or work it some more?

I appreciate the help. I really do. I got cocky after watching videos, some where they complimented early, except I'm not polished. ha


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Old 03-29-2011, 11:11 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by learninglegend View Post
Direct is ALWAYS the best way to go for day game.

Basic opener

Hi + [pre-frame] + [compliment] + [qualifier]

e.g.

"Hi! [I know this is a bit random] but, [I saw you walk past and I think you're really cute], so [I had to come over and find out something about you]."

Introduce yourself and get her name

Transition

Transition techniques
1. dhv story - talk about a random thing that just happened to you.
2. cold read - tell her something about herself based on something you notice about her / the kind of "vibe" she gives off
3. Questions as statements - instead of "where are you from" say "I can tell you're not from around here" or jokingly "I can totally see you're from Nigeria" when she's white and blonde
4. If you literally can't think of anything, then at least asking what she's up to today will give you some time and maybe she'll say something interesting you can work with. It's better than just standing there saying nothing!

Putty in your fingers. Don't think of it as the woman has to accept you. Think of it as, you are testing her, and if she doesn't meet your standards, you know in 1min and move on.
I'll give livinglegend props by agreeing and saying direct is always the best way to go. Everything else you said sounds canned. Now I'm assuming that those are JUST examples you posted here and not what you tell every girl you use it on. But if you are using techniques, it is not direct.
Direct game is fluid. It is unpredictable. It is dynamic. Direct game doesnt mean not giving an eff. What you meant to say by not giving a rats ass is not letting outside factors affect you.

Direct Game = Staying true to your intentions and being yourself.

That means you need to be you whether you like it or not. You don't have to stop each woman you meet and tell her what your about to say is random and then proceed to compliment her. Tho its a great way to start. Tell her how she makes you feel. Not what you think she wants to hear. That is pivotal becuase I know you guys will read this and still tell her what you think she wants to hear.

Being direct is just doing what you want. Just don't be stupid. If you do something stupid then obviously you'll get what comes to you.

You can't really give examples of direct game because its what you do. Its who you are. It's not scripted or planned. Trust me, you'll understand when you get used to it.

If your gonna DHV, is it because you feel like she can learn from it or because your trying to move on to the next step of seduction.

If your gonna cold read, is it because you want to impress her and think you need to do it to get her to think your cool or just because you were like "hey, lemme show you something cool".

Everything livinglegend suggested is cool but it depends where your coming from. He might have meant it just to be an example but most of you will think they are guidelines and then you would have missed the point entirely.

Basically when you have direct game down, you will stop doing things to expect something to happen in return. Whatever you do will be a routine in itself except its not planned or scripted at all....its just you.......


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Old 03-30-2011, 04:25 AM
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Yeah it's an example. A successful example I have used.
You hit the nail on the head when you said "it's a good way to start". Boom!! Exactly. How you stack after that depends on your particular encounter


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Old 04-22-2011, 10:45 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Morrisb View Post
1st two:

"Hi. I just saw you. I gotta go in a minute. But, I had to say you look absolutely beautiful. What's your name?" I get names.

"I was going to kick myself if I don't atleast try to get a number."

A: Do I know you...I'm feeling uncomfortable. [bitch]
B: awkward smile

3rd
I sat down next to here. I surfed online for a minute.

"You must be a brilliant student. I saw you here all the time."smile.

She said she just comes there to do homework, asked me if I go there. I say no but she seems interesting. I get a name. I asked what she did for fun. She re-adjust her bag. So I say I'll let you go but I'd love to call you sometime.

C: No but I'll see you around sometime.

eh
You didn't build enough rapport, but great try my friend at least you went in for the n-close.


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Old 05-16-2011, 12:46 PM
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Yeah i like what learninglegend said.


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Old 09-15-2011, 11:45 PM
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Also sounds like you were in too much of a rush. You JUST introduced yourself and within three seconds you ask for a number. Props for having the balls to go for it, I still need those. I would say you need to conversate for another minute or two and then just say how you gotta get going and go for the number.


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Old 10-05-2011, 11:03 AM
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I agree with these. The worst thing you can do is complement on her looks. You will seem needy or desperate, telling you you would love to call her. Instead, say something like "hey let's continue this conversation later (if she's a little interested), and I have something important to tell you. Can't tell you now, I have work to do, but here's my number. Text/call me, and I'll tell you in. Little bit" then leave her wondering what you need to say. She will think about it all day


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Old 11-10-2011, 06:11 AM
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I like the Direct Approach myself. It shows confidence and really flattering to a woman. Just don't use words that are too much of a "line."


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