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    Default Direct Approach

    This type of approach is opposite of an Indirect Approach and consists of approaching a woman and letting her know that you are interested in her without using some sort of canned routine.

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    Direct is ALWAYS the best way to go for day game.

    Basic opener

    Hi + [pre-frame] + [compliment] + [qualifier]

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    "Hi! [I know this is a bit random] but, [I saw you walk past and I think you're really cute], so [I had to come over and find out something about you]."

    Introduce yourself and get her name

    Transition

    Transition techniques
    1. dhv story - talk about a random thing that just happened to you.
    2. cold read - tell her something about herself based on something you notice about her / the kind of "vibe" she gives off
    3. Questions as statements - instead of "where are you from" say "I can tell you're not from around here" or jokingly "I can totally see you're from Nigeria" when she's white and blonde
    4. If you literally can't think of anything, then at least asking what she's up to today will give you some time and maybe she'll say something interesting you can work with. It's better than just standing there saying nothing!

    Putty in your fingers. Don't think of it as the woman has to accept you. Think of it as, you are testing her, and if she doesn't meet your standards, you know in 1min and move on.

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    Ok. Not bad. I'm just curious about people's success rate. lol

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    100% success rate.

    I've used it roughly......8 times. Im not a man whore haha

    results: blushing, giggling, denial (no way! are you talking to me!)

    If you get ANY of these, you have done it properly.


    If you want to meet women, use direct/day game.

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    I got inspired after a few hours. lol I dove in head first, direct and a 1/2. 3 fails I got a name with two, even a laugh and handshake. The minute I mentioned a number..they had to go. This last one I always see around. Should I try again or leave it be?

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    What did you say exactly? Post up man

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    1st two:

    "Hi. I just saw you. I gotta go in a minute. But, I had to say you look absolutely beautiful. What's your name?" I get names.

    "I was going to kick myself if I don't atleast try to get a number."

    A: Do I know you...I'm feeling uncomfortable. [bitch]
    B: awkward smile

    3rd
    I sat down next to here. I surfed online for a minute.

    "You must be a brilliant student. I saw you here all the time."smile.

    She said she just comes there to do homework, asked me if I go there. I say no but she seems interesting. I get a name. I asked what she did for fun. She re-adjust her bag. So I say I'll let you go but I'd love to call you sometime.

    C: No but I'll see you around sometime.

    eh
    Last edited by Morrisb; 03-27-2011 at 04:10 PM.

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    Quote Originally Posted by Morrisb View Post
    1st two:

    "Hi. I just saw you. I gotta go in a minute. But, I had to say you look absolutely beautiful. What's your name?" I get names.

    "I was going to kick myself if I don't atleast try to get a number."

    A: Do I know you...I'm feeling uncomfortable. [bitch]
    B: awkward smile

    3rd
    I sat down next to here. I surfed online for a minute.

    "You must be a brilliant student. I saw you here all the time."smile.

    She said she just comes there to do homework, asked me if I go there. I say no but she seems interesting. I get a name. I asked what she did for fun. She readjust her bag. So I say I'll let you go but I'd love to call you sometime.

    C: No but I'll see you around sometime.

    eh
    Ouch, sounds painful dude.

    Im not saying that you are, but you seemed a bit desperate, just from your phrasing.

    My favourite line is : "hi, this is going to sound super random. But you caught my eye as I was walking past. You look stunning in that dress (or whatever)!", and stack from there. Remember, never compliment their looks/body, compliment there style etc.

    How did you approach these women? Did you just walk straight up, head on to them with no eye contact?

    Dont start off with "i have to go but...", do your line then say "Look its been great talking with you, I have to meet X for lunch (or whatever), but give me your digits and I will text you later.

    I have had success because I pick my targets, get eye contact, then go in from the side.

    And remember, if it fails, its not you. THEY have failed your test, their not interesting.

    If you get an awkward moment or whatever simply say something like "oh, my mistake. I thought you were confident enough to accept a compliment" (say with cheeky smile)

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    I have to agree learninglegend. If you're going to compliment on a girls physical look/direct opener don't say something common words like "you're beautiful," use words like phenomanal, stunning, ect. and than FTC afterwards...bodyroc k...than stack on to a disqualifier/playful routine.

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    Default Re: Direct Approach

    I have to agree with learninglegend. If you're going to compliment on a girls physical look/direct opener don't say common words or phrases like "you're beautiful," use words like phenomanal, stunning, ect. and than FTC afterwards...bodyroc k...than stack on to a disqualifier/playful routine.


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