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Unread 06-01-2012, 04:00 PM
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Default Pandora's Box: Need help with Cinderella (NJI).

Okay, so I went on this amazing first date with a Cinderella (NJI from pandoras box) and I could tell that she was really digging me. She was sending massive ioi's and at the end of the date she said that she's sure that she'll be seeing me again. I then texted her the next day and got no response. I was extremely playful and did a lot of teasing and push-pull on our date and she seemed to be really into it. So does anyone have any idea why she would be ignoring me?

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Default Re: Pandora's Box: Need help with Cinderella (NJI).

No. try sending her some random shit, " is it gay if guys wear makeup" is what I've been using lately. Then you are set up to dhv, ya my girl thinks id look hot in it, we're going clubbing downtown blah blah blah.


 
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Well I already texted her twice. I tried a cocky one and a more comforting one, but neither got a response. I think that I'm going to freeze her out for at least a week. I don't think that that text will work, but I think that you might be onto something with playing the jealousy card. Does anyone have any ideas on how to make her jealous without requiring a response from her?

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Personally, i hate texting. She cant here your voice and anything you send has a higher chance of coming of being needy. A call has more pressure on the girl, but its better that she hears your voice. Talk to her like you would a good friend, start with a cool story first, but after multiple texts sent to her. Id leave it alone for a week or so then call her.

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you must have not swept her off her feed accordingly, or theres another suitor who is hollering.

once a cinderella likes you. in my experience..she'll always text you..and quite fast at that.. UNLESS shes with another guy..

one thing cinderellas dont mind is a few texts or calls..

make sure that your not coming off as needy tho!! make it like your checking up on her..making sure she got home okay..etc..
hope this helps!


 
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Thanks for the help. It took me a few ignored texts just to get her on a first date. So I guess I'll just keep texting her here and there. Jumpship, you seem to know a lot about Cinderellas. Would it be alright if I PM'ed some texts I was thinking of sending her and you could give me some feedback on them?

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I would use twitter or Instagram to build dhv. Girls sometimes respond quicker on twitter or Instagram they're addictive to girls. They put everything they think or feel. You can be casual on twitter. How did you meet cinderella ? Do you know each other's friends?


 
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Default Re: Pandora's Box: Need help with Cinderella (NJI).

This thread is over a year-and-a-half old and I've had a gf for about 6 months now. I couldn't care less about old whatshername.

It's funny though because physically my gf reminds me a lot about that Cinderella, but she has a completely different personality, which is a good thing.

Anyway, this is my story of how I got from there to here: I spent a couple of years learning routines and soaking up every bit of PUA knowledge I could and never saw much success with women. Sure I got laid a few times, but whoopdie doo. I kept trying to "game" girls that I was physically attracted to but there was no chemistry because our personalities were not compatible. PUA tries to manufacture artificial chemistry where there is none. I did that for years until I met a girl who actually gets me and I can tell you that I didn't get her by reciting routines and negging. And yes, she is very beautiful if you're wondering.

My advice to everyone here that wants a LTR is to stop trying to fit a square peg in a round hole and make every girl who you are attracted to fall in love with you. When you find the right person, everything will fall into place. Of course, if you just want to get laid I hear that Jon Sinn's material is pretty good.

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