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She texts you saying "Hey I cant make it tonight because something came up" (she is probably not saying what came up, she is saying she had to work late, or forgot she had other plans, or has something she has to attend to that she specifically names that she cant get out of). What the truck do you say back?



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Personally I would just act like it isn't a problem and It don't matter, and then text her in a few days and re schedule the date.......my rule of thumb is one excuse is fine because things do come up....she flakes a second time and I move on hope this helps

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Yea. thats exactly what I have been doing. Honestly I have been running game that seems to go really really freaking well for the past month or two. But most of my dates flake out or cancel and I cant figure out why.


 
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I have the same problem......You working mainly night or day game?

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mainly day. And the women who I am talking about right now who I actually get into conversation with, Number Close, and then make a date with, will be very into me. Its not like they are disinterested. I mean the game that I use on them is definately working. Some of them are even awe struck (I use the cube). I just dont get why they almost always flake when it comes to the day of the date!


 
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Hey Bud,

What kind of dates are you asking them on?? And are you framing it to them as a Date??

Girls are emotional. When you walked up to them and ran the cube and some game; you made them feel good. You have to keep them in that emotional state until you build rapport and comfort with them.

The best thing to do is invite them for a "quick" coffee or " drink".... say you wanna meet up @ this time, this place, but you have to be somewhere else in 45 minutes. This gives them the option of a "safe" meet and greet. Girls don't want to invest 2 hours of their time with a complete stranger who was funny and smart for 5-10,minutes...!!! WHat if it was a fluke.

Also, the way I see it is think of a girl you meet on the street. You talk to her for 5 minutes set up a drink date and then you fark her!!.... To me she is a low value women who I wouldn't start a relationship with cause any charming guy she would bang.... SO if she is hesitant and unsure it means she is a girl with a good head on her shoulders...

So just set up a quick drink next time. Thats your best bet


 
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Default Re: What to say when she cancels

yea you know its funny you say that because I used to use the term date but I learned to steer away from that. The women probably have too much anxiety about it. Or they just dont feel like its a good investment of their time. Either way your right. I need to just down play it even more th an I already had and use the words "quick drink", or have a time constraint. I had done that before and had a great success. Its just hard to remember all these little techniques (which there are so many of) in eevery instance which I am gaming, ya know?


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