Email that WORKS.

Now that I am married, I can share more of my 'dating' secrets. I stopped doing match and other dating sites because it became too easy to get 1st or 2nd date sex, but I wasn't growing my Pick Up Artist skills and decided I would rather be good with women in real life (bars, clubs, during the day, etc), then to just sleep with a large amount of random women online.

I know tough problem to have, but stick with me... it's a true story.

OK - Here is my advice for online dating.

1. NEVER wink. It is worthless online.
2. Send the following Email to EVERY hot girl you see - it is magic and short and simple and works.

Title: Wow
Body: "Hey, I just had to say that I find you incredibly attractive and love what you had to say in your profile. I would love to get together for a drink sometime and find out more about you. Talk to you soon, (your name)."

That's it.

Send the same Email to every girl you can.

It works magic and is simple. Up to this point I've only shared this with a few of my friends.

Paul (Married XPUA).

So - has anyone tried this... ?

I've never really gotten into the online dating gig, but I just sent out 8 on plentyoffish.com. I'll let you know the results.

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Update:

I've sent out 10 emails. Of those, 9 have been read, and of those, 2 have responded. That puts it at about a 20% success rate.

Considering online dating is very similar to online marketing, I'd actually say this is pretty solid. When it comes to mass email or cold calling, anywhere from 2% to 20% is a pretty solid success rate. Just keep in mind that you won't necessarily get the "one and only" you might have been hoping for, so send this email out often. Good luck guys!

BTW, plentyoffish.com is a free site, and most people on it are pretty passive. I don't have an account with a paying site, so I'd be curious if someone could test it out on Match.com or one of those. Seems likely that the success rate would be higher.

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I'll give this a whirl on match.com and let you know the results...

Quick back story.

I was sent this EXACT email from a girl a few years ago. It really caught my attention. And the title of "Wow" was great.

I was so impressed, I used it as my default email... and got AMAZING results.

I sent the email to 10 women, 3 days ago. I had 4 responses (so far) which was better than my prior email contact attempts. Looking forward to using this more...

I don't do online dating and I've been especially turned off since there is a lot of fraud at a lot of sites. However, I think this one is very good and I will keep it in my arsenal. Never know, maybe I will change my mind on the whole online dating thing.

I think i will try this out, I have just joined plentyoffish to try as i am currently laid up in bed with some mysterious illness

However i thought i would share my generic email that i sort of just drummed up ten minutes ago, would be good to know what you guys thoughts on it were...

"Hey,

I cant help but feel i know you from somewhere, maybe we worked together or... oh thats right i remember now i saw your picture in the dictionary for the definition of beautiful, it did also say also see Stunning

Ok so we have established that chat up lines arent excactly my strong point, but i can be forgiven right? i mean after all it is abit late on in the afternoon to be creative especially after a few beers

Now that i have won you over... I will pose the question... Hows your evening going, anything exciting planned for the weekend ahead? x

Maestro

What you guys reckon, does it come across right?

Cheers

No offense intended mate, but that is HORRIBLE.

Men. I'm glad I was able to read this... I'll try to stay away from email like that from now on.

I did get a few replys though lol

Either am not a hottie or I have fewer issues than the average girl... but the most this will get from me is a smile and a thank you

It sounds too generic and canned... but I will give it points for sounding all cool and casual. I believe I can supply better worded emails and private messages if I dig in my inbox enough...

I'm going to try this out. But I'm going to add the girls username after I say "Hey". That way it seems a bit more personal.

Sorry Maestro, I see several things wrong with it.

- Don't talk about drinking. (they might just assume you're just drunk writing them. Its not flattering.
- Your first sentence sounds like a generic pickup line. Girls hate "pickup lines"
- Don't ask to be forgiven about the stuff you write.
- Don't say: "Now that i have won you over...". Its borderline arrogant (not to mention kind of creepy).

For the longest time I didn't put much consideration into the "Subject Line". Those days have changed as of immediately. Now I'm more inclined to believe they can serve a vital role in your success.

Before I would use subject lines like: "This is my subject line" or "Curious to know more"

Well no wonder they never got read. The subject line isn't compelling. It didn't create curiosity or anticipation.

Below are some new one's I recently made up.

SUBJECT LINES TO USE:

Wait! You're about to MAKE a HUGE mistake! Don't do it!

It's that time again.

Fools rush in…

Mixed feelings about writing this…

Did you get a warning?

Hey, you'd better stop that right now!

Oh no you didn’t!


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