new member with a question about approaching 2 women

Hey guys I want to approach these two girls in my nutrition class that sit by me but i don't know how to go about it. I was thinking about sayin something like "So did you girls see the new twightlight yet i heard it was good". Is this good? My goal is to invite the one i like to bar to watch the ufc this sat. My class is tom. Should i invite both girls and ask my friend in the class if he wanted to come? Thanks for any advice guys!

I would say just go up and start making small talk with them. Talk about something that you are discussing in class as an Opener and then try to move the conversation in a direction you want. The key is to get them comfortable with you and get them attracted to you by showing off attractive qualities. Be funny, show you have abundance (talk about friends, especially girls to show you're preselected) and get your friend to chat with them as well.

I would not bother asking them about Twilight or if they found it any good unless this was something you were interested in. If you ask "was it any good?" what will they reply. Yes, no, kinda, it was amazing, etc... but where are you going to go with this convo. It's like asking a girl what time it is. It's an opener but it lacks any emotional value within it. If you can't hold a conversation about twilight don't bother asking. This is why i recommend you talk about your class. Obviously a common interest for the girls, you, and your friend.

Remember to smile and chat with them like they're already your friends. Another bit of advice, while talking to them don't ignore your friend. He is essentially your wing, and we never pay more attention to our target than our wing. Explain to him which one you are going for so he can essentially distract the other girl. This can continue if you invite them both to the bar with you and your friend. This way you can continue to emotionally progress with your target while your friend works to keep your obstacle distracted. The main thing you want to do though is have fun. Always have fun, girls are attracted to it.

Maximus

One thing to remember about classroom, workplace, or other social circle type approaches, you don't have to really open them in the classical sense. Just go up and introduce yourself, and start talking about just about anything. Since you have every reason for being in the location at that time, it isn't creepy to just be friendly.

You should try and invite them both out. Again, make sure that you are having fun with them. When you are hanging out with them and having fun your target will be enjoying herself around you and your obstacle will be feeling comfortable and secure with you and her friend there. That way you'll be able to invite your target out without her friend having any worries.

I once met these two girls at a bar and made myself comfortable around both of them (I even got them both to kiss me). When i wanted to invite my target out she declined, so instead i invite out the obstacle, even though she knew i was going for the other girl!

Getting into a good Comfort level with both of them is a good way to start. Then once you have been out and she sees she can enjoy herself around you invite just her out. Then you can move from just comfort to seduction and so forth.

Maximus

Doesn't the "have you notes of our last lecture?" routine work anymore? And yeah, man, don't ever ask a girl about Twilight. I don't think any guy really has anything to contribute on that topic, the girls will just probably gush over the hot bodied werewolves which will highlight the fact that you're not going to the gym (or are you?). Hehe.

Try to drop a good Opener like,"what do you think about the class?" An opener like twilight is not do good. Some girls may like it and some may not. Obviously, we, guys are not into such stuff. You may end in an awful situation where girls are talking about the hot bodies in the movie.LOL!

Inviting them both out and slowly separate your target is a good strategy. SOme girls are not comfortable right away to go out with a guy they hardly know. That is why they often bring some friend as chaperon just feel comfortable.