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Old 12-10-2009, 02:06 PM
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Hey everyone,

So I was wondering (and perhaps others) what would be the best way to respond to open ended questions.

Ex.

"So, what did you do last night?"

"How's it going?"

"What are doing right now?"

First off, how much detail should be given? I know that Mystery provides interest into things that you've done giving you value. Being vague allows her to fill in some blanks.

Secondly how should these questions be worded? Should they just come off as a statement or should there be a responsive.

Ex. "Last night was awesome, I went out to X place it was a blast. How was your night?"

Or should the question "How was your night" be left out.

Let me get some opinions.


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Old 12-10-2009, 06:11 PM
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Ex. "Last night was awesome, I went out to X place it was a blast. How was your night?"

Or should the question "How was your night" be left out.
Focus the attention on her. If she asks about your night, then great! Talk about what you did. Then, bring the conversation back to her life. Women love it when you show them that you are interested in their life.


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Old 12-11-2009, 07:03 PM
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Focus the attention on her. If she asks about your night, then great! Talk about what you did. Then, bring the conversation back to her life. Women love it when you show them that you are interested in their life.
I agree with fiddler. I've experienced it a couple of times when a girl asked me open ended questions. Women loves someone who listens to them. That is why open ended questions are good to ask when you're with a girl rather than "yes or no" questions. Also, such questions enables you to elaborate and express how you feel.


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Old 12-14-2009, 10:56 AM
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If i get asked "What are you doing right now?", I seriously hope I have the presence of mind to say something brilliant like... "Apart from being unable to take my eyes off you, I've also started taking up photography lessons."

I am praying for presence of mind though. Vague, general questions tend to throw me offguard sometimes and I sure don't want to be blurting instead, "Apart from trying not to oggle your bewbs..."


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If i get asked "What are you doing right now?", I seriously hope I have the presence of mind to say something brilliant like... "Apart from being unable to take my eyes off you, I've also started taking up photography lessons."

I am praying for presence of mind though. Vague, general questions tend to throw me offguard sometimes and I sure don't want to be blurting instead, "Apart from trying not to oggle your bewbs..."
Stay away from the gushy complements unless you do them completely tongue-in-cheek otherwise you will lose value and trigger the b1tch shield.

The fiddler has good advice. The other way to handle the question is to make up something funny and cocky. Just don't do that all the time, or the woman will think you are shallow or deflecting.


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