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Originally Posted by gunsnglory Come up with a reason for wanting her number. If you really are hooking her and she likes you, it doesn't even have to be a very good reason for the number. Generally you probably started the coversation on a situation Opener. It started a conversation on something you are both interested in. It is only "natural" that you would want to talk to her again about the item, or hang out the next time you go do X in relationship to whatever you were talking about, or maybe she is just "a cool person" which you "Might text in the future". |
very good answer.
One example I can give you is about a korean girl that I've met in class. When I first attempted to practice connecting with her, she basically had a huge
Bitch Shield and blew me off.
Then, for some odd reason, she became friendly to me on the second class and we went home together. We've carried this great conversation (I was light and funny) and everything was great. When we parted, I said "hey, maybe we should add each other on facebook or something". She agrees.
There's always the "let's setup a study group and exchange contacts so we can get together".
If you're not in a school environment you can even be a bit more direct and say "hey, it'd be cool for us to hangout sometime, why don't you give me your number and we'll hang out."