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Old 12-17-2009, 05:15 PM
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Well, traditionally, after attraction is Comfort which really just means finding a connection or mutual commonality. Discuss things that are important to you, and show a deeper side than just the guy she is attracted to. If you do this, and jump right to seduction *sometimes* she will think that you are just a fling and she is used to being attracted to *players* and it doesn't go anywhere past a make-out.

If you build some comfort, she then will start to see you as more of a long term prospect... so when it does get to 'seduction' she will feel more comfortable with you since you have this connection and won't have as much Last Minute Resistance.

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I agree with Bill. Don't just jump into seduction right away. You have to build a good relationship first (rapport). Gain the person's trust and if it clicked you can then go to the next level which is seduction.


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I agree with Bill. Don't just jump into seduction right away. You have to build a good relationship first (rapport). Gain the person's trust and if it clicked you can then go to the next level which is seduction.

It depends on what you want out of the relationship. If you just want to fark, then don't build a lot of rapport, it is unethical because the girl will think you are going for a long-term relationship.


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Old 12-17-2009, 10:39 PM
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Be clear on what your intentions are if your picking up with girls. There are two things though on why you pick up women. One is seeking for a relationship with the opposite sex and two is just to have fun like a "One Night Stand" thing. Nevertheless, in every relationship we deal with other people there should always be some ethics in order to preserve one's dignity as a person.


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Old 12-17-2009, 10:42 PM
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As long as you are clear in your intentions it is OK.

I pick up women because I:

A) Enjoy their company.
B) May want to have a one night (or multi-night) stand.
C) May want to be friends in general.
D) May want to date her.

You won't know until you start hanging out with them...


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