Whats next after attraction???

I am very good in opening and attracting girls. The only problem with me I think (my sticking point)is where to bring it next. I know how to be funny/cocky and make a good conversation. As a result, I end up in the friend zone. How am I going to improve myself and not going to the friend zone?

Some girls are just really nice. If they don't want their relationship with a person to become intimate, they tend to put that guy in the friend zone. However, don't lose hope on this. Some girls are just not that ready to hook up with you. You still have the chance to become sexually interesting for her and not put you in the friend zone.

Thanks for the responses guys. I will absolutely try to put into practice your advices. I'll be going out tonight. And I will give you some updates on what has happened. Good luck to me!

We love funny, witty guys. But if there's always a certain degree of flirtation while you make us laugh, we're never going to put you on the friend zone. I know it's hard, making us feel comfortable without considering adopting you as a brother, but really, just make sure that when you do make us laugh, you also don't leave any questions as to your interest in us as women you're attracted to.

Some guys get carried away being funny so it's not our fault if we think you're a clown.

It's really difficult to prevent the situation of being in the friend zone or "he's like a brother" thing. If we guys tend to be really nice there would be chance we end up such. I'm not saying we don't have to be nice always but exert a little aggression and flirting won't work-hopefully....

Is is alright to go for seduction after attraction?

* Is it alright to go for seduction after attraction?How is it done?

Well, traditionally, after attraction is Comfort which really just means finding a connection or mutual commonality. Discuss things that are important to you, and show a deeper side than just the guy she is attracted to. If you do this, and jump right to seduction *sometimes* she will think that you are just a fling and she is used to being attracted to *players* and it doesn't go anywhere past a make-out.

If you build some comfort, she then will start to see you as more of a long term prospect... so when it does get to 'seduction' she will feel more comfortable with you since you have this connection and won't have as much Last Minute Resistance.

BP