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Old 12-14-2009, 08:22 PM
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Alright,

I just me this girl about 2 days ago. She seems really cool and we've hung out 3 times in the last 3 days. Here's the problem.

She just broke up with her boyfriend 4 days ago and is just "looking for friends" I know that as bullsh1t when i see it.

My questions is simple. I need to build more attraction so that we can blow past that "looking for friends" garbage.

Any suggestions?


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Old 12-14-2009, 11:19 PM
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Oh man.. I've been in that situation. You know, when girls just broke up from a relationship, they seek somebody for Comfort. Be careful though you might just be a confidante at the end. However, if you really like this girl then go on.


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Old 12-15-2009, 05:36 AM
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Aiming to win the girl and being end up in the friend zone totally sucks! I experienced it once and feel so stupid about it. If the girl that I'm trying to pick up puts me in the friend zone, well, I got to look for girls who will put me in the sex zone.LOL!


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Aiming to win the girl and being end up in the friend zone totally sucks! I experienced it once and feel so stupid about it. If the girl that I'm trying to pick up puts me in the friend zone, well, I got to look for girls who will put me in the sex zone.LOL!


I LOVE IT haha.


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Old 12-15-2009, 09:36 PM
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Yeah, what are the chances that you will hop out of the friends zone?

Say there's a girl you've known from high school that you've always fancied and now you posess these PUA skills. What can that person do to try and put himself out of the friend zone?


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Old 12-16-2009, 11:13 AM
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Dude, just be careful that she's not in a needy, depressed state or won't turn psycho on you. Some girls tend to be
self-destructive after a break-up. Some guys capitalize on that but I've found that they're usually more trouble than
they're worth. Maybe flirting all the time will help. Or maybe befriending her and just tapping her network of friends
should be your course of action.

I dunno. I'm just not among those who make a habit of staying around and playing the loyal friend while a girl recovers. Even if I like her very much.


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Old 12-16-2009, 11:54 AM
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She may be mad enough or heartbroken enough to let you step out of the friend zone... but if she really cared for her ex,
then whatever she has with you will either be fleeting or something she'll regret.

For other situations, I think distance and time apart help friends and buddies transition better out of the friend zone. You have to give the other a chance to sort of forget how you are as friend and start seeing you as well... food!

Then again, for some girls, just being more sweet and directing conversations onto leading topics like sex and attraction works. For some others, being direct works best. She's your friend, you're the best person to know what will float her boat.


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Old 12-16-2009, 10:59 PM
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Dude, just be careful that she's not in a needy, depressed state or won't turn psycho on you. Some girls tend to be
self-destructive after a break-up. Some guys capitalize on that but I've found that they're usually more trouble than
they're worth. Maybe flirting all the time will help. Or maybe befriending her and just tapping her network of friends
should be your course of action.

I dunno. I'm just not among those who make a habit of staying around and playing the loyal friend while a girl recovers. Even if I like her very much.
I agree with this post "Dude, just be careful that she's not in a needy, depressed state or won't turn psycho on you. Some girls tend to be
self-destructive after a break-up" There is a great danger when you try to hook up with a girl who has just broke up from a relationship. During that time, they are depressed and need someone to Comfort them. I'm not saying stay away from those situations but just keep your cool and head on the game.


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Old 12-17-2009, 05:37 AM
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It really pisses me off when I want to pick up a girl and tried all the efforts that I can make and just end up in the friend zone. We'll we never know if we try it. If I feel I'm going towards the friend zone, what I do is just back off and find some other girls.


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Old 12-18-2009, 11:13 AM
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Some girls who have just broken up see new guys as a breath of fresh air... someone who will either remind them how fun hanging out is, someone without expectations, someone who can provide entertainment. Sure, these new guys can also validate her feelings/beliefs that guys are only after sex, that they don't care about her feelings, etc.

So if there are other fish in the sea, I say try going after them first and give this new girl a chance to work her issues out. Breakups are seldom without resentments and bitterness. Unless you want the drama, fish elsewhere!


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