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Old 12-18-2009, 03:18 AM
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Default Re: Bringing up the topic of sex

Way to go man!! Damn you nailed that one. You are one lucky guy. Give us some updates on how your game with the two chicks is doing. I wonder if Girl A will go back to you?


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Old 12-18-2009, 07:50 AM
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Default Re: Bringing up the topic of sex

Those that were on the teleconference last night learned the top way to initiate a sexual conversation with women. This is the ONE technique that myself and top PUAs like Nick Sparks use on nearly every date we go on. It is absolutely the single best way to initiate a sexual vibe and get into some sexual conversation with women.

Think about it, if you are close to her and talking intimately about sex and asking questions, she will naturally start thinking about what sex is like with you.

This is the one technique that seems to work every time.

Like I said, it is so good I use it nearly every time I am trying to escalate from Comfort to seduction.

Don't miss the next teleseminar.


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Old 12-18-2009, 11:07 AM
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One strategy my friend told me about that I have been practicing and is similar to what Bill is saying is this:

"If you keep doing /don't do something, I will do this or that." (Is there a name for this strategy?)

Examples.
"Know what, if you don't stop smiling like that, then I'll kiss you."
"If I win this round, you're going home with me!"
"If you don't start dancing, then we're going to start making out."

First of all, if she hasn't thought about getting physical with you, you've now given her the idea to toy over. And if she
has, then it would still look like you initiated it and that she's not going to come across as overeager. Just observe her
responses and see if her signals are congruent with what she's saying. She could not be giving you an outright NO anyway (she could be giggling, saying, "You're bad!" or "Oh yeah?" instead). And you just might be able to get a bathroom quickie
without sweating the small talk.

And if, say she said NO and got all stiff and moody, then you can cut short the time you're spending with her.


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Old 12-19-2009, 03:06 AM
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Well Girl A walked out on us and Girl B and I were left on the table. After some flirting with her. I noticed that she is flirting back too. After we grabbed our last drink, we decided to go out and take some fresh air. During the time with her, I was still wondering why Girl A was upset. But Girl B keeps the nigh interesting so I forgot about Girl B. We continued talking about sex when we got inside the car. That time I was horny and I can feel she is horny too! (LOL!) She put her hand in my lap and stroke her hand towards my groin. A sudden rush of adrenaline came into my nerves and the game is on! She gave me a BJ and it was awesome. She asked for my number and said it was great hanging out with me and she wants to do it next time...

How was your game with Girl A doing? What would you do if she will call you back after farking at you in you latest hang out together?


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Old 12-21-2009, 11:38 AM
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As lame as it may sound, sometimes, I just resort to silence. Girls often go, "what are you thinking?' or 'what's on your mind?' and I just say, "I'm just wondering how soft your lips are" or "Nothing much. Just wondering if you moan when you're kissed."

When there isn't any outright resistance or violent objection... I just follow up with, "May I?" and kiss her. After that, I know the topic of sex has been brought up and is only a matter of when (provided we keep seeing each other).


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Old 12-21-2009, 12:42 PM
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One strategy my friend told me about that I have been practicing and is similar to what Bill is saying is this:

"If you keep doing /don't do something, I will do this or that." (Is there a name for this strategy?)

Examples.
"Know what, if you don't stop smiling like that, then I'll kiss you."
"If I win this round, you're going home with me!"
"If you don't start dancing, then we're going to start making out."

First of all, if she hasn't thought about getting physical with you, you've now given her the idea to toy over. And if she
has, then it would still look like you initiated it and that she's not going to come across as overeager. Just observe her
responses and see if her signals are congruent with what she's saying. She could not be giving you an outright NO anyway (she could be giggling, saying, "You're bad!" or "Oh yeah?" instead). And you just might be able to get a bathroom quickie
without sweating the small talk.

And if, say she said NO and got all stiff and moody, then you can cut short the time you're spending with her.
Hmm.. I like this advice. It can help me ease into the kiss close! Thank you solomon


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Old 12-22-2009, 11:02 AM
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Maybe when the topic of movies or songs come up, you can use the sex material in those to steer them into a frame of mind where they're open to sex.

Even if you were talking about pets or issues, you can steer the convo towards sex. You just have to make the right connections. If they say dogs, raise PETA (nudity there, and Pamela, which brings you to Tommy Lee... though probably not someone you want to be compared against). If they talk about chick flicks like Troy (yeah, it's a chick flick, because of all the hunks in that movie), then talk about Eric Bana's love scene in that other movie (Olympic athletes, preggy wife?). If they're into romantic classics, Meg Ryan still has to be beat with all that moaning she did in When Harry Met Sally (oh by the way, do they moan like her?).


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Old 12-22-2009, 07:17 PM
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I like the word "sexy" once in a while. I never said it b/c I wasn't quite comfortable with it when I was younger but it's appropriate at various times. It could be about anything, shoes, something she's wearing or something she told you about herself that you think is 'cool', but call it 'sexy' instead. Maybe casually call her a 'sex kitten' b/c of something she insinuates about herself. Pull that $hit out of thin air for any reason.


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Old 12-22-2009, 11:15 PM
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Though there are times that sex topic is not so interesting to bring up, especially when having some casual conversations with a girl or girls whom you just met. If you gain rapport then maybe you can bring it up to add a little spice.


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Old 12-23-2009, 01:48 AM
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I like the word "sexy" once in a while. I never said it b/c I wasn't quite comfortable with it when I was younger but it's appropriate at various times. It could be about anything, shoes, something she's wearing or something she told you about herself that you think is 'cool', but call it 'sexy' instead. Maybe casually call her a 'sex kitten' b/c of something she insinuates about herself. Pull that $hit out of thin air for any reason.

Are men allowed to notice shoes? I don't think there's any problem commenting if an outfit is sexy or swell... but shoes? Apart from wondering aloud if their feet don't get tired of those high heels, I've just always felt that noticing shoes or bags isn't a guy thing. Surely that's what their girl friends are for?


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