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Old 12-23-2009, 08:18 AM
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Are men allowed to notice shoes? I don't think there's any problem commenting if an outfit is sexy or swell... but shoes? Apart from wondering aloud if their feet don't get tired of those high heels, I've just always felt that noticing shoes or bags isn't a guy thing. Surely that's what their girl friends are for?
True, probably best if she brings up crap like that, which she just might do anyway. I bet her best girlfriend won't say "those shoes are sexy, grrrrr" though


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Old 12-23-2009, 12:15 PM
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Nyahahaha... we'd probably say, "Those shoes are so sexy, arrgh, you think I can borrow them?"

But seriously now. We like certain shoes and outfits because they ARE sexy. Stilletos are sexy because they are phallic. Women don't have a problem saying that something is sexy on another girl (even if we may be jealous). I think guys should be safe with simple, "You look nice." with matching smiling eyes or an intent, appreciative look. I think the rule is, tell us we're smoking or delectable in a certain outfit, but don't ever say that a particular top is sexy. Or... to keep it simple, just call us Sexy (as in, "Hey sexy, do you come here often?")

And any guy telling us, "those shoes are sexy, grrrrr" would bring to mind images of a guy rubbing his face with our shoes. Not exactly a turn on.


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Old 12-23-2009, 02:18 PM
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And any guy telling us, "those shoes are sexy, grrrrr" would bring to mind images of a guy rubbing his face with our shoes. Not exactly a turn on.
LOL, forget the shoes then. You know damn well though that anything said the right way can go over quite well. One of my buddies just says "hey you" a certain way and it's off to the races quite often. I say "Hi" a particular way and someone's face will just light up IF it's said right.


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Old 12-23-2009, 03:14 PM
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I almost didn't post this cause I thought it might come off as "be a weirdo", that's not what I mean, don't be a weirdo. Also, Em sure someone in the community disagrees, this is my stance, and it works for me, most guys here are too freaked out about their insides to get this right on the outside.
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I love sex. I'm a sexual guy, I have an extremely high libido, and I like sex to be risky, and full of Tension and surprise. I love that! That is part of who I am inside, and I let that part come outside in the way I move, in the way I talk, in the way I direct my hands though a story, in how explain my emotional states and energy when I recall a past story, I have a Lions hunting Zebras on the sahara story that stinks of sexual undertone.

I am a living sexual undertone. If a women wants to be in my world, she gets it from step 1. Sex. farking. Banging. Hot, steamy, risky, Animistic behavior, being taken over by another person, that's part of the package with me.

When I meet a women who I might like to have sex with, I have ALREADY STARTED having sex with her. In my world, everything is foreplay when you are interacting with a lover or future lover, its a delicate dance, but if you go from standing to suddenly dancing, you are odd, if you go from dancing, to dirty dancing, that's ok.

My point is, a man should be considered a sex candidate from step 1, if he comes from a sexless position, into any level of sexual undertone, it just seems odd, if he goes from maybe sexual, to yep, that was sexual, that's not so odd.


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Old 12-23-2009, 03:46 PM
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My point is, a man should be considered a sex candidate from step 1, if he comes from a sexless position, into any level of sexual undertone, it just seems odd, if he goes from maybe sexual, to yep, that was sexual, that's not so odd.
True. That's why so many end up 'friends' b/c they're trying to be friends instead of lovers


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Old 12-23-2009, 06:15 PM
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Are men allowed to notice shoes? I don't think there's any problem commenting if an outfit is sexy or swell... but shoes? Apart from wondering aloud if their feet don't get tired of those high heels, I've just always felt that noticing shoes or bags isn't a guy thing. Surely that's what their girl friends are for?
For me, complimenting a girl's outfit, shoes, and bags is not a guy thing. Instead, give her a compliment how she looks. See her as a whole not just by her shoes or outfit.


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Old 12-24-2009, 12:36 PM
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Never underestimate the power of using eye body language in flirting with the girl. Use your eyes to show attention, appreciation, acknowledgment. Use your eyes to say you like what you see and what your intentions are. Use your eyes to undress her and make love to her. Many a girl have fallen, or given in, just because a man was able to mark her as his even while she was being played by other men.


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Old 12-25-2009, 07:10 PM
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Are men allowed to notice shoes? I don't think there's any problem commenting if an outfit is sexy or swell... but shoes? Apart from wondering aloud if their feet don't get tired of those high heels, I've just always felt that noticing shoes or bags isn't a guy thing. Surely that's what their girl friends are for?
I'm sorry to tell you man but it's kinda gay when you do that. I mean, most girls appreciate those kinds of things to each other. But guys don't. However, you can still give compliment to them by giving an overall impression like " You look great!" "Damn, you're so beautiful!"; rather than "Your shoes look pretty" "I like your coat"


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Old 12-26-2009, 03:16 PM
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On a related note, sometimes, you may have even started being physical but there's LMR. A girl can change her mind or just feel torn about sex, a typical downside of rushing into it too soon (mmm... ohhhh... ohhh... we really shouldn't... mmmm... oh I really shouldn't)

Deym isn't it?

So I guess that's the advantage of having the girl comfortable with you in a lot of places and a lot of different situations
before going in for the kill. Am not saying I wait, am just saying, waiting isn't always bad.


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Old 12-27-2009, 04:44 AM
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....dont be a social robot.....Do not seriously ask the question "Am I allowed to comment on a woman's shoes", come on man!! If you actually find the shoes interesting than yes , you can, if you are just being a dork, then don't.


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