Bringing up the topic of sex

I think your posting to the wrong thread my friend. But anyway, I will try to give you my thoughts about it. NO! For me, it's a big no to notice shoes and bags. It's kinda gay for a guy to appreciate those stuff.

Ermm... I was reacting to a post within the thread. Plus, I believe there is another one here where commenting on shoes was suggested and I was really, "Wtf?" with that, which is why I asked. Anyway, moving on....

Exactly! I don't thing noticing shoes and bags are a guy thing. I believe those comments are commonly heard from girlfriends who meet up in a bar or cafe and their one friend wears these shoes and carries a bag which is hot on the market.

To all of you guys debating over wether you are allowed to notice a girls shoes, I have a question for you. Are you going out sarging 4 times a week every week, opening 100 sets a week, approaching every single interesting person you see? Or are you reading e-books all day, planning for when you think you have every possible detail, every scenario planned out in your head, so that you can finally try something?

This is total AFC talk, go approach 20 women at the super market and compliment every single woman's shoes, it will take you 90 minutes at most, and you will be way ahead of where you were when you were asking these Chump questions.

Do I need to be any clearer?


edit: It just matters, if they really are interesting shoes, than yea, if you are just trying to keep the conversation going cause you are boring, then no probably not.

If Brad Pitt says "Nice Shoes", it was a hot comment, if Nueman from Seinfeld says it, hes a weirdo, do you get it yet?

It's not what you say, its why you said it, its how you said it. Stop focusing on the actual words so God Damn much. And get your ass out and start sarging.

I would use the 'question game' evert time. Starting slow, but increasing intensity in each question. It helps to mix in negs, like 'your're not very adventurous are you!?' She will then want to prove just how adventurous she is, so she will then be the one who is making the conversation more sexual. She may not even realise thats where u wanted to lead it. Subtlety is key.
Rhino.

This is too good to pass. Bill posted a great link in the 'end the year with a bang' thread and am reading it and one of the suggestions there is to tell the girl you're kissing for New Year that 'just because you kissed her doesn't mean you'd be sleeping with her, because she'd have to wait for next New Year's Eve before you give up the goods'

It's casual and very appropriate... I hope people will get to use it in a few hours.

Of course, try to escalate as best you can and take advantage of the overall generous and cheerful mood girls are in...

if she ain't talking to me about sex with in 2 mins then she has gotta be given the ass
mates agree with me more when i say 50 seconds though

Questions relating to movement, body, sweating, etc may help in bringing up the topic of sex. Feign sore muscles and start talking about masage, which all girls love, and move on to preferred oils, whether or not they light scented candles... and then say something about how you've been practicing massage, or have been told you're a natural, and offer to massage her hand (ask her how you can improve, what feels good, etc)

I will try that Opener on "Noticing shoes". I'll see how it works..

typhoon i just can't get congruent on this line. I love being massaged and i love massaging just I haven't been able to get this one going for a while and when chicks do massage me i cant think how it began... you reckon feigning sore muscles....? help me out on this one man, cos I reckon if i get this going I can set up 10 pins and knock em down lane after lane after alley