Fun First Date Ideas

Mini-golf: What's not to like about this first date idea? You have PLENTY of opportunity for kino AND for all around fun. You can neg her, joke with her, dhv yourself if you're good at it, and show her your confident and comfortable with yourself.

Shoot pool: Much the same advantages as the Mini-golf. Both are usually cheap as well.

Starbucks: This one can be cheap and gives you plenty of time to talk, tell stories, DHV yourself, get to know her.

Park: If the weather is warm, this is a beautiful option. Outdoors, green grass, trees, You can throw frisbees, play volleyball, play tennis or basketball if those courts are available. Plenty of opportunity for kino, again, and for joking around. You can bring an appetizer or some snack too. And, you can see her in a summer dress or shirt skirt. What more can you ask for? Wink

Mall: Walking the mall is free. And you can Bounce from store to store, getting to know her, what she likes and dislikes, neg her, DHV yourself, more opportunity for kino.

Bar: If you both are old enough to go to a bar, you can sit and have a couple of drinks. You can get to know each other a bit, if there's a dance floor, you have much room for kino.

Musuem: These are usually free, or by donation. There are plenty of topics to talk about. Plenty of opporunities for building kino, for having fun, negging her.

Zoo: Walking time. Picture opportunities. Kino opportunities, holding hands while walking. Make fun of each other around the animals, neg her. All kinds of cool stuff can happen here.

Walk on beach/river front: Walking, holding hands, talking about each other, watching the water, the sunset if walking at that time. Feeling the breeze coming off of the water. And free.

Bowling: Kino opps, neg opps, general joking around, and usually cheap.

Wine tasting: This is a great one, shows you have class and you both get a little buzzed.

Skating: Cheap, good excersice. GREAT opps for kino. For negging.

Ice Cream Shop: Who doesn't like going to get ice cream? Time for talking, some kino.

Botanical Gardens: Again, I don't know anything about this one personally, but have been told it's good.

Board game: If you can make her feel comfortable enough to join you at your place for the first date, and you're not in seduction yet, break out a board game and have some fun, great EC, kino, negging. Free. Or, take the board game to the park.

Card game: Same as above with board game.

Hiking: Doesn't matter if you're an avid outdoors person or not, you can both go hiking on trails in parks. Great opps for kino, cheap if not free, time to talk, get to know each other, etc.

Volunteer: Volunteer for some local event, or for some local charity. You'll give your time for free, but have opps for kino and joking around, getting to know each other.

Ice Skating: Usually cheap, especially if you have your own skates, and as with the other skating, PLENTY of kino opps, negging opps, general fun times and getting to know each other.

Decorate together, for the season: Have her to help you put up some seasonal decorations. You'll have great fun together, you'll see her creativity and she'll see yours, and great opps for kino.

Fly kites together: Hmmm, windy days, warm weather, blue skies, kite's flying, kino opps . . . need I say more?

Dance in the street together: Taken directly from the movie "The Notebook". Take the girl out into the street, turn some music on in your car, and start dancing. Simple as that.

Create a scavenger hunt for her: How much cooler can you get than setting up your own personal scavenger hunt for her to complete, in order to get a prize at the end?

Feel free to add more ideas to this thread.

I like that. Reps.

Excellent post my man!

Adding to the list:

Take her shooting range: This will only work with some girls, but most of them have never ever done anything like it, and it can be a lot of fun. Tons of Kino opportunities as you help them with their shooting form.

Golf Driving Range: This one is always fun, and also rarely done by most people.

I often had a lil bit problem when initiating a first date. I tend to overly prepared for the occasion and forgot a couple of things. What would be a better way to prepare for a simple date yet you are still playing the game?

Well the great thing about all the above dates is that they are all very casual and almost no preparation. There should be no expectation on the woman's part so you can't really screw it up. 90% of those dates should be "spontaneous" as far as the woman is concerned.

A date is a way of communicating to your partner. Dating enhances one's techniques in picking up women. Through dating one can determine his weakness and strengths in communicating with the opposite sex.

I like just about all of those. The shooting range is great but my gun tends to knock girls flat on their asses lol 12gauges are sweeeeet

Those are pretty neat ideas because they require you guys to be in public. Cozy restaurant dinners and dark movie theaters may put a girl off and on guard, because she'd probably think all you want is to smooch. I'd also go to a kiddie carnival or even a Theme Park. Getting silly allows the girl enough chance to relax and be held. If she's also up to it, there may be a boxing ring where you guys can go to, one that offers those crazily huge boxing gloves, and you guys can try knocking each other up that way. You can Kino her up by checking for bruises later.

Just make sure you forewarn a girl if she's going to be messed up. At least tell her to dress casually or in her oldest clothes. Few girls don't make an effort on first dates, and we hate messing up our good clothes, or to be dressed inappropriately.

Go to a firing range with the girl. At least you'll get to say things like... "are you sure you can handle mine? it's kinda huge." and there's loads of Kino opps.