Dealing with flaky girls

I met a HB9 on an internet dating site and we seemed to hit it off through email right away. We made a date but an hour before the date she said she couldn't make it. A few days later we rescheduled the date and this time we went out and had a great time. She had like a bad cough the whole night and was kinda sick from a few days before so kiss closing wasn't really an option (there was phlegm involved). I'm almost positive that if I did want to, she would not have turned away and would have been into it.

Anyway about a week later we scheduled a date for a few days ago and about an hour before our date she said she couldn't make it. Now this really pissed me off. A day later she texted me "hey my very sweet and angry babyyyyyy. Merry Christmas." I did not reply. And then today she texted me "can we talk tonight babes?" I still have not replied and wanted you guys advice on how to handle this. Do I make it like it's ok that she flaked and just move on and reschedule or do I text her back explaining that I really don't like flaky girls and act upset. Or I could always just tell her that I'm busy tonight and we'll talk tomorrow. Just wanted to see what you guys thought about this situation and how to deal with it and flaky girls in general. Thanks

What was her reason for flaking out on you?

Anyway, if you're really into her, then maybe it will be worth your while to still give her a chance. Tell her you're busy tonight and just talk tomorrow. Besides, its the Holidays. Normally, I cut people some slack because the holidays can be pretty toxic. Plus, now you have the upper hand because she's texting and texting.

Just exact much from her in making it up for you.

I generally don't like flaky people. I value my time very much and hate it when others don't. Plus, if we're not steadies or anything, I don't really like the hassle.

But if she has a good reason for not being able to make it, maybe you could let it pass. This final time.

If you have other girls to be with however, then just drop her and move on. Feel free to reconnect though when the picking's slim.

I believe she has a good reason why she is flaking out with you. Ask her what happened that she seem to cancel out your dates. And for the second time. Even though some things are not working well, you still have good deals from her. She always texts you. That only means, she is into you.Maybe the next time you go out with her, she has no longer a cough so that you can finally kiss her.LOL!

Girls who really like you won't bail out at the last minute, or, if they do, will give you a good reason for doing so. And they'd sound sincerely sad about it. And they're likely to already offer their next available date or some way to make it up to you.

If she didn't do any of these things, then you should think about moving on to the next girl. Happy New Year!