Do you facebook friend the girl you just met?

Hey guys, I think getting in contact on facebook is HUGE for making the next move with women.

I mean I can't tell you how many times I would meet a girl who is a friend of a friend or something and not really hit it off with her, but I friend her on facebook and we exchange comments or whatever on our wall and I send them a funny message or something and pretty soon we are going out on a real date.

I bet I've hooked up with about 50 or HOT girls from my school using this.

So ALWAYS try to befriend girls you meet in real life on facebook.

totally - you can also find out lots of information about the girl through facebook which would've taken a whole lot of interrogation on your end to find out.

The only possible problem with this is:

Where is the leaving somethings mysterious?
Where is the getting to know you?
Why expose someone to YOUR life too fast?

If you post "going out with the boys to the bar" she could "bump in to you" while you are out (or stalk you) - hrm maybe that is a good thing. LOL

what if you don't call when you said you would and your status the next day said "what an incredible night- kinda like the hangover with the tiger without mike tyson" ... where does that get you?

I had a girl friend of an another girl friend put her phone number on my wall telling me to meet up with her... why should you have to explain that to someone you met recently? It is easy to explain, but that's not my question.

For me, facebook = hook-up-book.

Seriously, I agree with the original poster - facebook is a freaking goldmine and you are missing out if you are not using it to meet women (or contact women you've met).

I think Facebook is one of the most powerful social media in today's time. Through this, you get to meet different hot girls and get to know them even if you still did not meet up personally. Also, it is a one good way of communication and exchanging ideas and profiles. If someone is interested in you, she can add you up and the "getting to know" starts.

RedTwo raised some valid points. There are psychos out there who you might not otherwise want posting comments on your wall. Anyway, I am not much of a Facebook user myself but I wouldn't mind adding girls to mine if I'm in the mood. I also don't mind being added by complete strangers because I only approve requests when i'm in the mood.

I add them all and I make all of them add me. Good thing I am not a neurotic magnet like some of my friends and girls my age aren't looking for anything serious as well.

I recently had success by simply messaging a random girl on facebook saying, "Add me". She sent me a request the next day. Then when she added me I opened with, "So you just add random strangers? lol What's up, I like the glasses". Went on from there to # close. That was just an experiment but I'm 1/1 so you might try it. Not sure if it really works or just got lucky.

a good story i have here shows the power of facebook

there was a music festival at my university, and the pre party for it was at this guys house. there was about 14 girls and 3 guys, me being one of them.

a few days after the festival, everyone had added me from the pre party, as i only knew one of the guys there and hadnt met any of the girls until that day.

anyway, 3 weeks later and one of the girls who didnt add me soon after the festival added me, because she had seen me talking to her friend at university and so just added me. i didnt talk to her at all on facebook chat - the occasional wall post but thats it - and managed to fark her at another party.a few weeks later.

another story. at the same party that i farked the girl above, i was talking to another girl who i had met before but didnt add on facebook. the day after the party she added me on facebook and we were talking and stuff and she gave me her number.

dont underestimate the power of facebook. everyone knows that people are more relaxed/in their Comfort zone in their bedroom on their computer instead of being at a party where drunk guys are going to try hit on them all night. they wont have their guard up and are generally in a relaxed state. also it can be a quick, easy way to get to know someone, and build rapport if your confidence isnt the greatest

-hff

facebook can be an amazing p*ssy book, its lead to me farking about 4 girls. most of which i havent seen in a while, but with new girls i feel like its not a great place to start?!