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Old 12-27-2009, 03:05 PM
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Default Advice needed about friends sister

ok so ive been best friends with my buddy for years now and his younger sister is really attractive and i cant resist her, i dont know how to come off to her, i dont want to creep her out by making a move or suggesting her to cuddle with me, she seems interested, there lots of eye contact and smiling between us i mean lots, we stay up real late watchin tv and talking, the most touchin is of out knees and bodys if we are sitting next to each other, id like to be able to just cuddle when ever. i get the strongest feeling the next mornin as if i miss her alot..weird i know. id like to get more physical but dont know the right steps. i dont want her to feel uncomfortable later if she rejects me.


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Old 12-27-2009, 04:54 PM
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ok so ive been best friends with my buddy for years now and his younger sister is really attractive and i cant resist her, i dont know how to come off to her, i dont want to creep her out by making a move or suggesting her to cuddle with me, she seems interested, there lots of eye contact and smiling between us i mean lots, we stay up real late watchin tv and talking, the most touchin is of out knees and bodys if we are sitting next to each other, id like to be able to just cuddle when ever. i get the strongest feeling the next mornin as if i miss her alot..weird i know. id like to get more physical but dont know the right steps. i dont want her to feel uncomfortable later if she rejects me.
Here's the thing about relationships. There is no definite. Everything is a probability. If you say you are as close as you claim, I would say you pretty much have already built up Comfort and Kino seems to be fine with this girl.

I'd slowly escalate. When you're watching a show together next time try being a bit more bold and put your arms around her and slowly move into a cuddling position. If she doesn't do anything resist or pull away, she's complying and that's the cue for a kiss close

good luck.


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Old 12-27-2009, 06:07 PM
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Try to make her comfortable with you even if her brother is around. You can also hang out with her together with her brother. And then, try to think of any ideas on how to get a time alone with her.She may be uneasy when she goes out with you because you are her brother's friend. But, it won't be a good reason why she won't go out with you.


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Old 12-27-2009, 07:55 PM
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Initiate some intimate gestures on her. If you won't do these types of moves and just being casual with her, she may think you just see her as a sister since she is the sister of your friend. Keep her interested in yous aside from the facts that she has known of you.


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Old 12-28-2009, 12:49 PM
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I think its time to see her away from home so you can really be comfy about just being a girl and a boy who could be dating. Next time you're about to watch TV with her, ask her to grab coffee out with you instead. Then maybe a goodnight kiss can just naturally happen after bringing her back home.


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Old 12-31-2009, 01:38 AM
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You need to gain her trust in order to date her out. She may see you just as her brother's buddy. She will definitely nice to you and feel that you are part of the family. Try to get out from that persona. Instead, establish something concrete- a guy who wants to take her out.


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Old 12-31-2009, 07:36 AM
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Hmmm... if you're attractive enough, then there is a big possibility that she may be interested. It's pretty common for younger sisters to have crushes on their older brother's friends. Plus, she's been hanging out with you already. I'd do what the others have said and give her an opportunity to see you as date material by seeing her outside of the home or maybe chatting her up on the phone.

But wait, shouldn't you also sorta tell your friend about liking his sister? Am not sure of the code between guy friends but I've always assumed most guys would protect their sisters/cousins/friends from their buds. Lolz.

And I don't mean you need to ask his permission but it wouldn't do well for you if your friend is against this. And regardless of whether you intend to just have fun or be serious with the sister, your friendship might be affected somehow as well as your relationship with your friend's family.


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