Fatal Attraction

A few days ago, when I was hanging out with my friends in a bar, I met a hot chic,HB8. She was with a group of girls, I bet those were her girlfriends. As we enjoy ourselves through the night, one of my friends invited them to join our group. My friend knew one of the girls in their group. The two groups merged and introduced ourselves to each other.I was interested in one of the girls. I tried to come to her and initiate a good conversation. We clicked! I was really interested in picking her up. But, I had one problem. I have already a girlfriend. Before we went home, I got her number and planned to hang out with her again, just the two of us. What should I do to keep this attraction going even if I already have a girlfriend?:confused :

Your game darling, your rules.

You decide what your limitations are, if any, and you alone will face the consequences.

Haha.. All I want is to have fun. Nothing serious though hooking up with the other chic. I love my girlfriend and we're going out for quite a while already. I just want to add some excitement in my life as a man. You're right. I should be ready to face any consequences, if and only if I get caught hooking up with another girl :P

And I seriously hope that if your girlfriend thinks the same, and you caught her, you'd be considerate of her also wanting to just have fun

Well first decide what your current relationship is. If your girlfriend isn't cool with you seeing other people, then you need to redefine that relationship, or decide which woman you want more. Otherwise, you are a cheater, and dear God a woman's wrath can be a bitch! If she is cool with you seeing other women, then "girlfriend" may not be the correct term. In that case, you can just go ahead with this girl. Just be honest that you are see and sleeping with other women. If you have an adventurous girlfriend, you might try for a threesome.

What a wild idea you got there man. As for me, I won't do such a thing. It is a very dangerous game you are playing. You already have a girlfriend so why pick up others? I agree with the posts here, a girl's wrath can be a bitch. And you may end up in a scandalous situation.

If you are really into it bro, then go for it. just prepare the consequences that you would be facing if your gf finds out. And you might end up with zero- your gf breaks up with you and the chic that you're trying to pick up will dump you; head first.

No judgment here but these are what I believe.

- there are so many hot women out there, and some of them are real interesting too
- i go steady with a girl not because she's the hottest or most fun or whatever, but because am happiest with her overall and I care about her
- if you define "excitement in your life as a man" as being able to game girls left and right and hook up with hot chicks you might want, then having a girlfriend right now is a deviation from that path so... ditch the girl
- if you define "excitement in your life as a man" as being able to game girls left and right and hook up with hot chicks you might want, you may forget all about this other girl but there will be other girls begging to be gamed and picked up... and if you're lucky, they may even just fall on your lap easy... so having a girlfriend right now is a deviation from that path so... ditch the girl
- you may get your GF to think threesome is cool but unless she's seriously BI, then threesomes are likely to be few and far between and she'd have to approve each girl

If you are into an adventure of hooking up with girls from left to right, I think it's not time for you to be in a serious relationship. You have a girlfriend right now and I bet she would be in an all out war if she caught you seeing and sleeping with other girls. Suggestions here are right, if she's into 3some then it's okay. But if not, there would be some bumps in your relationship.