Help: I think I'm getting gamed, instead of doing the gaming...

I've been gaming a good percentage of girls and there are three, four girls who I've been serious with for the past... year. I'm at a school and I only see the girls at class, and maybe for lunch and the first few months were EXCELLENT. Too nervous to k close, I waited and came up with a excuse to leave and sarge / eat with other people *mainly girls* and so after working on my Comfort skills I noticed that the girls that I have gamed are comfy around me but they have a BF . While the BF isn't there, its like old sarges, she's calling me over and is laying basic kino.... but NOW the BF and her are seen in front of me, she starts making out HEAVILY!

I see the fact that hurt me wasn't the girl, because she was going to be a flake so I could get close to an one itis i had dating WAY BACK. The problem is that I want the BF to go away, I befriend him *poorly* and we are on good terms, but he has that AMOG SMILE and when he gives that doggy dinner bowl look long enough, he finally gets the two - three seconds of serious steam and saliva.

I'm not sure how to fix this, logically I know whats going on.... but aa is back and its hard to think on my feet like I did about a year ago.... Emotionally, I feel like sh1t..... and its hard trying to cover it in public.............. ............ plz help!!!

Chances are you didn't bring enough of a sexual vibe, and she placed you in the the friends zone. Sometimes things like that can't be helped, the current boyfriend just happens to show up. Some women just like screwing with men. The point is that this will be one of many failures. Move on and learn, become great and forget about the women who missed their chance at you. Yes. They missed THEIR chance at you, not the other way around.

Thanks, but my one itis is a friend of hers, and I want to Pivot off of her, but I dont see them together, because she tends to be on her "own schedule". What's a good way of making the girl with a bf bring up my name around my one itis?

You won't ever had much luck trying to get a girl to mention you to her friends. Instead of that, become her friend. Beat her to the punch by moving her immediately to the friends category. Hang out with her and be fun. Don't try to be sexual or romantic in anyway, and feel free to go overboard on entertaining her. You want to convince her that you are not emotionally hung up on her, and that you are someone she wants to invite out for a good time. If she mentions any parties or friend get-togethers she is having get yourself invited. Then you can work her friend. If you are good friends with her, you automatically have a good stepping stone to go after her friend. When you see the friend, you can assume a degree of familiarity with her because of your connection to this other girl. You have an immediate topic of interest (the girl you befriended). If this friend likes you, you can be sure that she will be talking to the other girl about you. That is when the Pivot action will happen.

thanks for this knowledge, hope i can turn text into x*x in a few days. ill keep you up to date!

FORGET HER!! You are an up and coming PUA my friend. Go out with a buddy have some drinks and own the bar. Sleep with a few women to get your mind straight. Make conversation with everyone you come across to get rid of your aa. You're gonna bomb on some sets. It happens to the best of us. Once you interact more with people, a couple different things could happen: A)You will realize that the oneitis chick isn't really all that great or B) by being the life of the party and interacting with multiple groups, everyone will love you, and you will have the girl you want all over you! One girl isn't worth being hung up on until you are ready to hang up your PUA status or lack there of and settle down IMO.

If you feel you're being gamed, then at least learn from it so you can improve yours! Good luck... and try seeing other women before going for the one-itis chick. By then, you may be more calm and collected and thus can use your friendship with this girl with the bf to your advantage.

Todays response: After reading gunsnglory last post, I went out and got a friend to get me invited to a party. The highlight of my day though was when my friends who turns out to be dam jealous at the first sign of you trying to keep your self peacocked. I had a new binder (nothing fancy, just a new 10 dollar binder, most girls at the school focus on guy's items and a clean binder would dhv just like $100 shoes, $500 designer coat, etc...) and so go pick my invite up and Fluff with some girls and when i get back the three assholes are look at me like they did something. First thing I see is my binder flipped over, *it wasnt the way I left it* and I see it and someone put their NASTY FEET ON THE BACK OF THE BINDER ! I WAS PISSED, too the point that I couldn't remember any AMOG tricks, I ended up though scaring then to write a letter, and one saying he would bring a new binder to replace the old one. The letter (from each) ended up being a joke, peice of sh1t letter. I was pissed but I IMMEDIATELY stop giving the typical response for the girl who had the bf, and I ended up avoid her with our "daily ritual" of her walking me to class... IT wasn't all a bad day, I ended up gaming the bf's good friends and got a very good response. BUT I NEED HELP ON THE disrespectful asses....

Dude, the thing about respect is you COMMAND it. You don't DEMAND it. And yeah, you have to EARN it. And when the girls you're gaming see that you're so easily rattled, or if they just see other guys treating you like sh!t, then they won't be impressed by them... and you. They'd feel sorry for you though and that's a shortcut to the friend zone.