Too busy to go out after one-night stand

I have got some number while going out. I call and text the girl but the girls are starting to ask if I am ever going to take them out on a date. How should I handle this?

Well, in a way, a girl will find it hard to believe that you had time to go out and fark but you can't make time for a date. And I can't think of any gentle way to turn them away because this has yet to happen to me.. hehe... but yeah I guess, just tell them you're busy.

It's absolutely an awkward situation you got there. Divert there idea of a date. Just day "Hey let's hang out." "Let's watch a concert". Something like that.

What about when the text message is:

"So were you ever going to get around to that whole asking-me-on-a-date thing?"

Rather straightforward don't you think?

Just tell her/them you don't believe in dates, but if they want to "hang-out" that is cool. Then just invite them over some evening to your place to hang-out/make supper/ whatever the excuse is.

You've got a couple options mate,

A. tell her that you're actually gay and just wanted to see what hetero sex was like
B. tell her you would but you are babysitting you're neighbors dog for the next month
c. Don't pick up her calls/texts

In all seriousness you can tell her you just want to be friends (no explanation needed) or you can take her out and bone again.

explain to her that you dropped something and you cannot find it. When you do find it you will ask her out again for another sexual encounter.

btw you may have more luck if you place an ad for your missing man card. lol

Matrix that was hilarious!

Since I personally don't like being kept hanging, I probably would have replied with something like...

1) Honestly, no.
2) Probably not anytime soon.


And maybe you should stop dangling the promise of dates next time you have an ONS. I mean, just enjoy the sex, the moment, and don't make future plans.

Question though... was the sex just so-so or actually bad? Hehe.

dig it matrix.... i do the gay one a bit, probably cos some girls need a lot of talking before anything is possible sexually. "but i am hot" they seem to say and i go honey yes you are but you gotta have a little more than that to interest me. i believe in chicks doing a little work for me. heavens forbid some AFC breaks his ass to marry her and has his life ruined despite the fact that he thinks he has made it supporting some lazy tart who won't work. and she prbably comes from generations of women who won't work in the sack.... they just lie there and go fark me. I'm hot. they think their looks alone gets us hard. if she is boring she is boring no matter how she's packaged.

i have a much better night on my own with the ice cream, a dvd, and my hand than i do with some "hot" tart who wastes my time and has her self esteem in her boots

yep matrix the gay routine can go on a long time and if any gay blokes come along they usually get it and your standard queen who really is gay and not just confused are pretty cool guys fairly often. can be very very valuable pivots. thing with the poofs is they understand what its like to have a struggle in life and are actually good conversation and have thought about things very deeply. there are some hot babes that i would actually knock back to hang out with a few gay men for the evening.

i got a gay bar i go to when i want to get away from the world of (good looking) chumps who have nothing going on. the gay men and women often seem to get it and they often show a bit of love and respect for each other

hell sometimes i wish i was gay but i tell the babes i am a celibate gay man and if they are lucky i might take them shopping but there is to be no throwing themselves at me whatsoever. they think i am hilarious but often I am actually quite serious then they gotta have me