So as the title of this thread said I watched the movie Top Gun over the weekend to get over my failed sarge...
I was wondering where and why most of sarges would die and watching the scene when Maverick and his wing "Goose" get into the stall and Goose ends up dying... when it hit me! My problem was women are like floating islands / pillars / etc... where you need to elevate yourself (fly) to get on their level.
If you do this without any problems then you get the girl, this emotional connection however is only made by using PU techniques to turn on the attraction, Comfort, and seduction. So to relate this to flying, you get up into the air, then go max on the engine thrust and have the nose all the way up, and finally you put the nose down and go for the land.
My problem however was the last part, landing, because once I would break the attraction, and get the comfort going, I could land and begin the seduction..... So every time I would stay in the comfort I would be warning signs............ first the friends would start to hint at you about your lame jokes.... second your target would start to challenge your power... and finally she throws you into the friend zone................ .................... .................... .................... .................... 
This process of the warning signs is called stalling, and just like in flying its a MAJOR warning sign of your engine (game) is going to be in no effect soon..... The extremes of stalling (occurs the more you do stall) in real life is a nose dive of the plane and the body will feel LARGE AMOUNTS OF G FORCES........... so just like in real life, your emotion will take MAJOR HITS.............
After learning about this the hard way, I will put up some ways of how I dealt with the stalling but first does anyone have good methods of being seductive with your target? 