So i found a girl

Hello everyone,

So it's been a while since i last posted here but i'd like your advice and opinions on my current situation.

I met this girl on the website Plenty of Fish. After a few messages back and forth we exchanged numbers and facebook info. We chatted for about 2 weeks. Late in the second week we got into a little sexting initiated by her. A few days later we did it again and she insisted that i "come over and f*ck her hard". Later that day i did end up at her house. We play some video games and watched a movie then got into great sex.

Afterwards she said that she's never slept with someone after just meeting them. (Do girls just say this or could it actually be true...?) We layed in bed for at least 3 hours after sex and then i left.

Yesterday i went over to her house again and we watched another movie. She was very tired but we still layed together and cuddled. When i tried to make things a little sexual she didn't want to, but she kept sliding her hands along the top of my pants and later began to rub me through my clothes. In the end i got a HJ outta the deal (didn't come) but i didn't get to do anything for her. I kinda had a feeling that we weren't gonna have sex that night, but at least there was some Sexual Tension built.

Where i need my advice is here. When i'm with her i tell her how much i like just laying beside her and being close to her. She says that she really likes it too. We text little romantic messages like "wish you were here" and "all i wanna do right now is kiss you". If things keep going this way this will be the first real relationship i have ever had. I'm just needing some advice on doing it the right way. Obviously i'm doing alright, but does anyone have any pointers

Errm... i'd see her and hang out in other places aside from her bedroom, that is, if you're considering dating her or going exclusive. Cuddling and sex are all cool and great but you have to be able to see the girl in different settings before you really go into a relationship with her. The bedroom is a magical, mystical place man, it could be just casting a spell on you!

Indeed. Go on fun dates and get to know more of her. Like what they always say here, escalate!

You went from steamy sexting to "wish you were here" texts...and from sleeping with her to a handjob. I won't say you're doing bad but that's not exactly progress either.

all 3 of you helped me to some extent. i have some similarities with my situation. there are complications and there is also an element of her our social lives and our relationship differ. i don't get into her scene at all. i work creatively and she is becoming a good part of my work for the time being

Hooked up once and now you are her boyfriend. Make her chase you a little bit more man.

ok well you guys started out with sex because that what she wanted and she followed her emotions and if she is sending you some of those romantic texts what you need to do is peak her interest. Its all fun hanging out at her house but what you need to do is show her that a relationship with you will be fun, passionate, but that you can also be understandable, not controlling, non apathetic and stuff like that. I would take her on a few dates to show her how fun you are, maybe the zoo, bowling, rock climbing, hiking, and after you guys know each other well camping is so much fun. Then after a while you need to show her your emotional side. take her to your favorite place in the city. When i end up finding that i care for a woman i take them to my favorite spot. I take them out on a very clear and nice night, i drive out to this place where there isnt lights or many sounds for miles and then i play music in my car lay on top of it and pick out all the constelations i can see and just talk. show her that you can care about things. tell her about the people who have changed your life and stuff like that. it will show her that you can communicate, that your non apathetic and that you be real with someone. thats how i do it once it gets that far but i also try to not make it creepy. so get her into that loving mood but also keep the mood a little light.