This HB10 has ripped by balls off.

ive officialy creeped her out. fark.

ohhh fark the nicest girl ive met in years and i fark it up. i cant believe this sh1t... wow im so farking disappointed.

how i creep her,

we talked on class on wednesday as usual, a bit after, we went out and we talked and she had to go. i told her i sent her a message. she calls later to know about the message.

on Sat i send a message. No response

Earlier today, I sent a message, no response.

called her like 30min ago.... no response, i was going to ask her out to a movie and a bite afterwards.

fark im acting all AFC.

haaaaa at this exact moment i have another girl i was working pretty much asking me out. i dont want to go out with her.

What should i do to the HB10 when i see her tomorrow? ignore and stay away? give her space?

i think she has someone. Thats the only thing that would explain the way shes acting or she just is scared and wants nothing out of it.

Hehheh you really caught the love virus. I'd give it some room, as you said yourself. Give your phone to a friend :-) Or get drunk with a pal, write her a love letter but not send it. Anything to pass the time :-)

i did good today. Most important win or lose is that IVE BEEN LEARNING A LOT. Ive been learning a lot about how to deal with the HB9-10s, ive learned a lot about myself and which pitfalls i have to avoid. this experience has been amazing and by "losing"(its not certain but im cutting my loses and moving on, she has to do the moves now). after im certain, ill post all the things ive learned from HB10s so that you guys can avoid it.

Maybe ill write the same things others have, i feel that all this process is a matter of finding out yourself. i made the mistakes and i learned from them. Maybe writing them wont help, maybe it will, who knows, all i know is that in order to learn and grow you have to fall and burn.

when i said i did good i meant, i was not clingy or weird, i have lots of girl coming on to me to talk and sh1t. i also went into class, talked a bit with her and had some looks with other girl (im starting to work on a girl(HB8) im going to approach), i mean, life is good, im working hard once again and the love bug i had caught is the fark out of me body.

uhhhh i also have a girl that ASKED me out yesterday. Well see what happens this week.

Similarities... paralells...

Since last Tuesday after she had done the oh so sweet caring thing for me whilst sick she backed right out. I chased. Couldn't pass time so I was sure I had pushed her away. She sent my a text as she usually does on the sunday or mondy (i forget) the text was very matter of fact and told me nothing, no details. just words like busy and well and good. glad even. hmm. i was sure we were dissolving and there still wasnt even a 'we'

she had finished by saying see you in class which musta meant our standing date before classes was dissolved too

surprisingly i felt fairly light and bemused by the whole thing. i like her but i thought i have been knocked back by some scrubbers so this is sorta fun

woke up early... before 5am and without hanging around made my way into the city the long way. at 7am i was eating breakfast and i got an email on my mobile that she sent at 6am. she said she had got all my emails from the weekend (some work some our stuff). she was in a rush but was talking about keeping our usual breakfast as if she had never wiped me... i took that in my stride too

i am not sure if i waited. i went to the room but for the whole day she wouldn't leave me be. the teacher told us all that we are all to work in different groups with people we havent worked with before. still she was clinging. i know why she gravitates to me so well. it is because i genuinely listen to her. i don't offer advice, or tell her what to do, or try and solve her Sh1t. i am just there and she loves it.

throughout the day and evening she was opening up more and more. she started telling me why she doesnt reply well to my txt or email. i said its ok that she dont reply to ALL of them. idrop them in subtly like that. when i was going home for lunch and in the evening she was altering her path to stay with me.

i was still thinking gee what a change issues with the 'partner'

the age dif with the partner is big. her and i are 10 years but the 'partner' has material investment in her and does not listen to her and does not get that she no longer wants to drink alcohol or do drugs. he is losing control, pretty much lost it i reckon, and i am just hanging loose and she needs me emotionally as i am kind and listen to her. how could you not listen to her??? she is a 10 and cool. digs my sense of humour too

so we parted company tonight with her talking about problems at home. i was going home and me and the cat don't have that kind of baggage

so setting up the date outside of our usual??? hmmm... mystery method would say i am trying to Bounce her out of set?? i know her routine sort of, and got most ways of contacting her... i think i am blocked from fb as she may have all her scene with the borefriend on that account. we haven't hooked up on fb yet anyway but she did ask if i am on it.

we got a pretty cruisy flowing thing going... what really matters is getting naked and in the sack. my joint is obviously the place. the bloke is pretty old and likes his gear so i could maybe charge him to watch us?? dunno, but she wants to meet my wingcat (seriously a strategically allied pet is way good) so yep....

my detriment atm is i crashed my beautiful honda last october and writ the bastard off. i am walking or catching public transport. not as sexy as a black performance japanese machine. i need a car!!!!!!!!!!!

BOLD #1

Great, David D says that if you want your partner to mature you have to let her solve her sh1t. If she does she matures out of those situations, if you help she learns nothing. He believes this is a big issue on many relationships.

BOLD #2

DONT let her use you as a crying shoulder, if you let her shes turning you into a just friends guy.

so far so good. the best of luck buddy.

My situation is different. i took a different approach and ill see what happens. God knows what it will do to my girl. what i know is that im not going to allow myself to fall for anyone until things get serious and if she wants anything she has to come get it and it wont be easy.

thanks man. i appreciate your support, i aint home and hosed yet.
she sent me an email first thing this morning that turned out to be her trying a little joke. unfortunately it wasnt funny funny and just was a bit confusing. she knows that she is not to try humour again for a while

OHhh BTW i got my balls back and my MAN CARD. theres a girl from that room that wants to talk to me today, we'll see what this is all about and if its to study together i know ill have a chance to bang her and if its something else i try to turn it in my favor so i can bang her LOL

so guess who called me today and spent like half hour talking to me?

YES the HB10.

ha ha ha ha, you know what, that girls has proven me once and again that she wants me but shes confused and maybe ashamed of her emotions because of her compromise with the other guy. Now that i understand her better i can understand her emotions and make a plan on how im going(im going to, its not a possibility its a fact) to get her. She may be looking for a way out anyways.

so this happened, she was on facebook, shes never on facebook, last time i saw her logged on i didnt speak to her. I did this time, said HI that was all and she poured on me. started talking a lot, asked me why i was absent on wednesday. LOL i did that on purpose so she would miss me and she did. after a bit of talking and teasing, she was asking me to see her pics and so did i. she told me she had already seen my pics(i dont have many), she must have seen a recently added pic with another HB. it was amazing until her connection died.

two or 3 texts back and forth later SHE CALLED ME, just to let me know that her internet crapped and it was not her not wanting to talk and such. I mean WTF is going thru her mind? you are engaged and talking like this with a guy that you like and thats going nuts trying to make you fall for him? Im running my game smoothly and i have her eating from my hand, i dont know if i should look for a kiss or something or if i should just keep going and risk falling in the just friend zone.

i just know that when she has those lapses shes nuts and im not liking those at all. AND most importantly my game is not stopping for anyone, i will keep going no matter what.

good work prjav

similarities to one of my stories atm... it seems to be with the real hot ones that we have to go through a trial first where they see that we dont crumble like most blokes...

good on you