My Next Move?

Hey guys I need some advice asap. Long story short, I met this beautiful Brazilian girl while hanging-out with my friend and his brother. Just to add: I fell heads over heels for her. For the purpose of clarity, I'm gonna called this girl Anna. Anyway, I was able to talk to her for a while and even dance with her for 5 minutes. I ended up getting her number that night and we then said our goodbyes. Btw, this was a Saturday night.

So, playing it cool I called her that following Monday. She and her friend were on her way to a restaurant near my house. She invited me to come, so naturally I told I would be there. I showed like a hour later. At the restaurant I talked to both Anna and her friend and everything was going smoothly. Throughout our conversation, Anna was touching my arms. And just like any other guy, I took this as ioi. In end we said our goodbyes and I went home.

Two days later (Wednesday), I called Anna again, but she didn't pick up. She texted me half-an-hour later saying that she couldn't talk, because she just had her wisdom tooth taken out. So since then, I continued to text her and also because her spoken English wasn't all that good.

To skip a lot of detail, in the following weeks I kept on asking her to hang-out with me (my messages didn't include any sense of desperation or anything like that) but she would never give me a definite answer or sometimes she insisted on bringing her friends. Keep in mind that it was always me initialing the conversation (ie. the texting) and not vice versa. And sometimes, she would only agree to hang-out with me if I was hanging out with friends of my own. Altough, there were a couple occasions where she invited me to hang-out with her friends so, naturally I would go and join them. At these occasions she would literally speak like two sentences to me the whole time and not say anything else. Btw, this had nothing to do with her bad English, I'm guessing that was her way of ignoring me.

So pretty much I got the impression that she wasn't interested. What solidified this point was: my own friend (who speaks Portuguese) asking her [Anna] if she was looking for some to date. Anna's response was: that because she was an au pair and only staying temporary she didn't want to get into any relationships. This I think was total bullSh1t though.

In the end, I haven't talked to or texted her in over a week. And supposedly 2 days ago (Friday) Anna and her friend had another get together in some restaurant and I wasn't invited, by Anna. So pretty much my questions are: should I forget her (even though I think she the coolest down-earth chick I met) or come up with a new tactic to get her to go out with me?

Please help me and if you guys need more information or clarification let me know !

well she was def. feeling you but you made a few mistakes. She seemed to be initiating the action. sh1t if she is touching you she is most likely open to be touched. get her back. Build rapport and Sexual Tension and Comfort. Hanging out twice and not trying to pull her aside or trying to take her away afterwards and make the move is just not right. U seemed to already have one foot in the friends zone. One way to come back, accept a meet up with friends but build the rapport and sexual tension and then seperate her from ur friends during or afterwards and go for the move. Initiate the kiss close and bam. Even though she is saying she doesnt want a relationship doesnt mean she doesnt want to hang out and maybe get a guy to have sex with. so basically meet up but build the attraction, make a move, be persistent, and try to become a sexual entity. If you cannout do this within the next 2 hangouts you may just have to call it quits cause your in the friend zone.

Hey crobinson1, thanks for posting a reply. Just a heads up, I'm new to this whole PUA thing. I have read the Msytery Method book and am almost done with the The Game by Neil Strauss. Anyway, I read about the whole "building the rapport and s3xual Tension thing." But in laments terms, could you explain how you go about it. As I said I'm new this whole thing.

One more thing: there was this one time where we were in a club and I managed to pull her away from her friends. But after 2 minutes of dancing she run back to her friends. This kinda pissed me off. I guess I should used that opportunity to build rapport and tension (only if I knew how).

Anyway, please get back to me on this. Thanks.

no im new as well and have not read any books but i have read forums and just talked to people on here and studied online with vin dicarlos pandoras box. ok building rapport usually comes from....
Discussing common interests and hobbies
Flirting and establishing physical contact
Teasing her in a playful manner
Mirroring her actions and sending open body language
Having a dynamic personality and bringing up interesting topics
Some things to help build her attraction to you is telling interesting dhv stories to help display some of your good traits. And things to start building Sexual Tension is just saying things that can be playful but start her thinking about having sex with you or start being naughty with you. One thing i actually said to a girl today was ...

4:48pmChristopher
alright so i was thinking about maybe getting some all white clothes and then finding a place to put up some tarp and then put a big white piece of paper hanging and just flinging paint all over the place...lol i think that would be a lot of fun
but i promise u will get dirty...can u get dirty?

4:49pmLindsey
yeah i can do dirty for the most part lol : )

so i said something that is for the situation but could be taken differently. And then things like looking at her lips when you want to kiss and she will notice. Im sure im not the best but this will start a good discussion.

HEY EVERYBODY WE NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO BUILD RAPPORT AND SEXUAL TENSION. WHAT HAS WORKED FOR YOU? GOOD TECHNIQUES OR ANYTHING THAT YOU HAVE, YOU SHOULD POST!

oh and a guy thats really good with talking about pckup and making videos. Check out youtube.com and search succeedatdating. His name is Alex and i find he is really good and very informative