Opinions sought....

Hey all. I've been out with an HB10 on 3 separate occasions over the past 2.5 weeks. She texts every day and we always end up meeting up at the bars on occasion over the weekends. There is tons of physical contact but no kiss yet. I haven't gone in for the kiss when walking her to her car after the 3 dates because I've wanted it to be when she didn't expect it. Can that be screwing things up for me?

She has given mixed signals when ending the night also but is always flirty since I always give her a hard time and we are very touchy feely with each other the entire time we hang out. Can you guys give me some advice to fully snag this girl. We have a good time and I'm just looking for fun right now and don't really think I want to end up falling for her. Just looking for some thoughts. Thanks for the help.

Try ignoring her for a day. if she is interested in you and can't get a hold of you it'll drive her nuts. I had a girl giving me mixed signals a few weeks ago. She kept giving ioi's but everytime I made my move she pushed me away. She went out of town for the week but kept texting me so I just ignored her texts all week. She got really desperate in her texts and when I did see her again she jumped on me like a dog on a piece of meat.

First off why wait till the end of the night? Do it in the middle that way if you don't get it you can work for it later. If you havnt been ljbfed already then build some Sexual Tension with her on the phone. Crob can give you some really good tips about how to build atttraction on text. I'll leave that one to him.

As far as eaculating her once you build some tension via text and get her going when y'all are out at some point in the night notice something on her neck. Her jewelery or what ever. Lean in and look at it. Then as you pull back smell her neck or hair. Compliment it, say something like that smell drives me wild. Go back for more but this time give her a soft kiss on the neck right under her ear. Then the ice is broken and you can for more later. The trick is have her comfortable with the idea of you touching her. If she isn't then she will pull back. So in return build that attraction via text, and Kino esculate her from theoment you see her.

There are tons of kclose techniques. This is one I use all the time.

Of course there is the evolution Phase Shift. But then there is bills whisky kiss that works great too.

Make the move but do it right. If you do it right she will be all over you.

We are going to be hanging out this Thursday and will be pulling the trigger in the middle of the night. I just dont wan't it to be expected. As far as calling and texting, I will take your advice and give her some space to see how she reacts. She is the type of girl that doesn't usually text first and has guys hitting on her all the time. She already told me she liked that I don't just tell her how beautiful and great she is all the time because she hears that nonstop. I just joke with her and tease her to the extent she seems to like the challenge. But the first few dates she kinda stood there as to wait for the kiss but I didn't...I just didn't want it to go down like that.

I've only known this girl for about a year and the only thing I believe to have against me is that she walked in on me having sex with one of her friends last year....and she was like well is that how you always are blah blah...whats your number...and was like well I walked in on you making her moan like crazy. She wouldn't drop it until I told her if she couldn't get past that we shouldn't hang out because it just happened being drunk and its not like I liked her or the other girl and its not like either one of them liked me at the time as far as I was aware. But since we had that little discussion, she hasn't seemed to bring it up again and we've hung out 3x since then. Once at a basketball game, to the movies, and rented a few movies.

But we are always wrestling and teasing each other. Think I should just do it right in the middle of wrestling around with her? Or I'll just do it when I first see her next catching her by suprise?

thats always good, try it when you first see her. let her walk by you, gently stopped her by anchoring her arm to turn her around and pull the trigger. and if she tries to joke around about the sex thing put on an act like ur the man. ok well last time i checked you walked in when she was moaning like crazy...that must say something about me in bed..haha but yeah obviously since she is gorgeous she doesnt want to hear it from you and then your text game just needs to be fun, upbeat, and different. check out my post on text game and it could give you a few ideas on how to be different

I'll be sure to try that and see what happens. I just get mixed signals from her sometimes. She's a tough cookie. The type of girl that's always like, "don't tell me what to do" type. I'm just trying to get a better idea of how into me she is. The signs are there and then she backs off sometimes. I always see her friends out though and if shes not around her friends always ask where she is....so I don't know. I'm just getting back into things after having gotten out of a long relationship so thats where Im at.

well actually if you want to learn the exact type of girl she is i would check out my post about pandoras box and cold reading...it helps you understand women to there very core and how to attract them knowing what type of girl they are

Thanks for all the help. And the advice for kclose and whatnot.

not doubt bro. just always slow it down to think, and good luck

She is definitely
tester
justifier
idealist

and of any of the others, playette....

whats the best to approach with this type of girl after having heard the background?

Although, I'm not aware of her dating and hanging out with multiple other guys, it is definitely a possibility. But, we have a ton of the same friends and it seems she is pretty transparent about things and since I see her out on the weekends....doesn't seem like it but I wouldn't put it past her.