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Old 06-25-2010, 12:02 PM
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Default What's my type?

I recently went on a date with a girl who I met online. A few hours in she asked me, "What's your type?"

I could tell she was fishing for a response to let her know if I was into her or not. But, I didn't know how to answer this question. I said I don't really have a type. What's a good response here?

She wasn't satisfied with my answer lol. She also asked "If I don't really have a type then what was it that attracted me to her profile/pics?" I don't remember my response kinda stumped here too.

I would really appreciate some advice

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Old 06-25-2010, 12:32 PM
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lol well obviously she is having some insecurties but you dont want to qualify her quite yet on that stuff so i would have went with, "well my type is a girl with good energy and a solid outlook. so ill tell you how it goes when were done". this will keep from listing things off and it a personality thing but your also telling her im not going to tell you anything anymore so quick asking and lets have fun. so that is something good that i just came up with but it can def. be revised a little. but basically something around those lines would be good.

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Old 06-25-2010, 01:41 PM
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Thanks for the reply great answer.

Now the last part of the date I have a question about. She was making plans for me for future dates. We were holding hands and i was rubbing her arms and touching legs, playing with her hair and I was talking to her extremely close... I could tell she badly wanted me to kiss her and we came close but I never did (Plus she had about five drinks).

She even brought up the face that she has to have sex frequently and what kind of panties she had on. 20 minutes of her frustration with me not kissing her and she finally said I'm at the point where I've was at the point where she was getting too drunk,(Maybe the truth?) that she had a client to meet tomorrow and it was getting late (Not true). She got up and we rushed to a cab and she gave a quick hug and dashed off.

Did I blow it by not kissing her when she was dying for it? I texted her since but it seems like the attractions gone. Maybe I'm overthinking it. Where to go from here?


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Old 06-25-2010, 04:05 PM
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hate to say it.. but I bet she 'ran' off to text and meet up with a guy who was more of a man and would kiss/satisfy her.


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You blew it. She was putting herself out there and was into you and you shut her down and rejected her. As a result she will never trust you to do that again. If your not comfortable with having sex with her cause she was to drunk or whatever I can respect that, but she obviously wanted to kiss you and need some gratification. People have different ways of showing affection and she obviously was through touch. You got to feed that need to keep her attracted and if your not going to then she will move on to someone that will.

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Old 06-25-2010, 06:53 PM
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, "well my type is a girl with good energy and a solid outlook. so ill tell you how it goes when were done".
lol i used a line very simular to this last night, but i was trying to neautrlize her looks so i told her " Yeah your kind of cute i guess, but beauty is comman you are either born with it or buy it. What matters is a solid outlook, good energy and well centered self." I threw in the style line, "you got 2 of the 3 so your doing ok"

works like a charm everytime!


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lol i used a line very simular to this last night, but i was trying to neautrlize her looks so i told her " Yeah your kind of cute i guess, but beauty is comman you are either born with it or buy it. What matters is a solid outlook, good energy and well centered self." I threw in the style line, "you got 2 of the 3 so your doing ok"

works like a charm everytime!
i might have to use that. yeah i like downplaying the looks cause then it throws them for a loop and it makes them feel like they have to earn my attention and my interest. lol man now knowing pick up its so easy to manipulate girls. i love it

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