How I Spit Game - the come back

k well me and this girl have been hangin out and things were good so good that she wanted to be exclusive, and i was resisting, at first, but after talking and texting alot when i was working out of town i started to really like her. well needless to say i let my gaurd down and started givin her a lil too much. telling her all i thought she wanted to hear, getting kinda needy and even jelous, which is not like me, and it pushed her away. now i realize what i did wrong but how do i Bounce back from this and give it another shot with her. we are still are good terms but she doesn't know if she she likes me in that way, i guess it was from being to nice put me in the friend zone. i know the first step is to not talk to her for a while and get her to chase me some how but not talking at all and just waiting for something to happen seems like givin up. and i don't have to much of a problem of just movin on but still wanna know if theres anything i can do to get this girl

first of all start dating other girls. this is extremely important, when you only have ONE girl you get what we call Oneitis and you get needy and stupid. Being jealous was part of being stuck with only one option. when you have plenty of girls and one of them is with another guy you dont care much. Hell ive had girls that after they spend some time with a guy they come back more attracted to me because of how beta and boring the other guy was.

i would go back to the basics with her. take her out to a coffee or an ice cream or something that doesnt require lots of money and lots of time. When you get there the LTR topics are out of the way and you will have fun and thats it. Fun and Kino and be flirty and thats it. end the date on a high note and let her chase you or make things sound like she is the one courting you. Whenever a girl suggest something i spin it around so that it feels like shes chasing me.

pjarv. your are the man. i couldnt say it any better. get some other girls to help your game so your not constantly thinking about her only. i had to do this lately but now she is completely chasing me. i had her saying for me not to divorce her (my roleplaying) cause we hadnt met up and it was straining our marriage and i just couldnt take it anymore. haha so get them chasing you and never give in. one of my biggest lessons is never let your game down. always be spitting game. even in a relationship. cause once you become beta, needy or clingy. its done