"I want to be your girlfriend"

So I've read quite a bit about game, but I not as much on the transitional period between pickup and relationships.

I've been on about 5 dates with a girl and she wants to stop 'dating' and be my girlfriend. Of course I want to do more dating - I feel like I haven't even gotten started yet - and I want to keep seeing her as well.

The first time she told me she wasn't comfortable with me dating other people I gave her a good talk about how this is what dating is like and that I didn't like it any more than she does, but people date a bunch of different people before they end up moving into a relationship.

That cooled her down for a bit, but a couple dates later and she's back at it and trying to give me an ultimatum.

Of course I could lie to her, but I'm wondering if there is any 'dating' game/technique I can use to make her cool with just dating.

Thanks in advance for any tips. I do like hanging out with her and don't want to lose her over this.

please tell me you fclosed her already. If shes like this and you havent been together yet shes a psycho in my book or you are failling.

I strongly suggest you sleep with a girl before you get into a LTR. what is shes not compatible with you? you end up with a girl thats bad in the sack and you will not be happy no matter what. If you have done it already and youve done a good job you could turn her into ONE of many GF in a non-exclusive relationship where she will only fark you and you could fark many other women. sex god method goes deeply into this.

dont be deceptive, talk things with her truthfully.

also her being this desperate to have you as her bf tells me a lot about her personality. theres something fishy around there, dig deeper and really get to know her and obviously keep dating.

there is maybe a technique out there but you basically need to tell her to slow down and that u dont want to rush into anything. she wants to date you, im sure she wont be like "if we arent bf and gf then im leaving." cause you wont care and she doesnt want that. so have a talk with her about trying to have an open relationship dating thing.

Yes I've slept with her many times and used sexual game on her - multiple orgasms and sexual personalities. I think this is part of why she wants me so bad - that and she probably likes me in general.

The sex god position you describe would be perfect. Do you know where I can read up on this?

I just remembered that Neil Strauss' book The Game might have talked about how to date multiple women with them all being cool with it - I'll have to double check.

Until I learn some more, I think I will play the 'slow down' card and tell her "why would you want to stop what we have going?"

Thanks for the advice!

Found tons of stuff about sex god, thanks man

no dude you just have to read ONE book.

its called the sex god method. thats its. there he will tell you what to use to turn her into a regular.

I don't respond well when I get boxed into an ultimatum. I find it to be desperate behavior, and well I don't want desperate I want high value.

If I were you I would explain that to her and watch her reaction. And if y'all can't come to an agreement then it may be time to go separate ways.

Ultimatums are based on lack of power, it is also a desperation move. Her ultimatum is the only way she knows how to get what she wants based on insecurities. Get to know her better because this is a (-) sign imo!

hahaha loving the proper alpha responses! top class jokes

Hey guys thanks for all the great advice - I wanted to provide an update. I think there's real merit to what everyone is saying...

So I gave her the 'I want an open relationship talk' which was about not rushing things and later on when I'm ready for an exclusive relationship she'd be a top choice.

At first it looked like it didn't work, and despite game and sexual game, I couldn't change her belief system.

But it turned out she was either bluffing or crumbled at the thought it was over. This is how it went down..she first sent me a text saying "I'm going to miss you". I replied "me too" and thought it was over. Then she said "it's too bad you want to end this' (possibly a reaction to my being willing to let go to get what I want). I said "Let's just take a break for now - never know what the future will hold". Then her response "What if we didn't take a break and I dated other people too?".

That was a few days ago. Today she snapped and told me to 'f-off' when I didn't respond to her text. We engaged in a solid back and forth texting and I'm actually quite impressed with her debating skills and ability to express herself.

What it means is that game works - this girl is head over heels for me, and she would take someone out if that's what was neccessary.

I'm not sure how this will play out, but if we ever have sex again it will be explosive. Otherwise, this will be a very high maintainance girl unless I can train her properly.

I'll let you know how things go...