Is it weird that I'm getting fed-up?

yup. we never want to think of them to much and put them onto a pedestal cause they will never live up to it. thats why as PUA's we train ourselves to understand that not only are we trying to get her interest, she is trying to get ours. And thats good, lots of PUA's would say its stupid to get a girlfriend when you sleep with anyone you want. i mean thats nice and all but yes as tcomea said it, we are humans. we are wired to share experiences and lives with someone significant.

Dont be ashamed to get a girlfriend. and if u do stay in the game if you want. practice sarging, keep teaching people and all that. but the biggest thing is just enjoy it. some people forget the purpose of being a PUA. its not to get any girl or sleep with tons of women. its to enjoy our lives and get high quality people to enjoy it with. pick up is a lifestyle, not just a program of techniques to get women. So when you keep going, just dont be afraid to sometimes think would it be good to settle down and date this girl if you do have oneitis!

in the end, you want to look back on this experience of learning PUA to be fun, not stressful because your trying to get women. A PUA is an alpha male that brings the party and people love to be around. that why people love this so much is because its FUN. Now after having that moment of like enlightenment or an epiphany (idk what to call it). i have noticed that once you understand Pick up for the most part its just about having fun and not worrying about getting women or anything.

To me they call it "Game" because everybody plays it different. Find your game and just go with what feels right to you and i guarantee you will have more fun and WILL have women in your life that you enjoy being there!

great post crob... rep +++

thanks! i wanted to discuss what pick up is to me. actually im going to start a thread about that and repost this! lets see what pick up is to other people

Great post indeed man! Never really thought about what pick-up is to me...I'll keep an eye out for this thread, should be interesting

yup i made it as. "what is pick up to you?" should be a great thread hopefully. a thread of stories, inspirations and why people decided to make this change.

much respect crob, and in the same respect that is how i believe as well. It is easy to get laid and have women around, but life becomes fulfilling when you are able to allow a women in to love you!