another chance...?

hi there,
usually i'm pretty good at the whole pick up thing, but this is about the girl who got away.
a long time ago she told me she was interested but at the time i wasn't. later i was but then she wasn't and saw me more as a friend.
now she contacts me after about 2 years and says she wants to catch up...
so i guess i've got a second chance to sweep her off her feet.
any tips? i really don't want to blow it.
if i had a choice i would just leave it but you know, you want what you want sometimes, right?

exactly. no need to think about not wanting her. if you do just go for it. and i mean u seem to just be in ur head. you how to do it. be playful, neg her, hold a strong frame, be alpha, sexually escalate and build solid rapport and Comfort. you should do fine. just stop thinking about it too much. ur putting too much value on this girl and its throwing off ur game

you are already setting yourself for disaster. If you really were a good at the PUA "thing" you would not be having failure thoughts. you would be thinking that you got this and every other girl in the bag. You have to be confident, calm, collected and just have a fun time.

great now she sends me a message: "should i bring my partner?"
give up and move on? or keep at it?

Smells like a sh1t test, say okay thats fine.

Tao, I would suggest you read some inner game material. It's not an easy task to handle her partner being present while you're on a date with her.

I've recently attended an Real Social Dynamics seminar. Check out some of their free stuff on their websites. It might help you with this one. You have to be prepared to knock the girl out of this guy's hands without alarming him.

I would suggest you bring a wing along to help you distract the guy while you go in for the girl as soloing this takes a bit of practice.

Give up! Shouldnt let it effect you, show it effecting you then uve got no chance so just play it cool and punish her for it. If she means partner as in boyfriend i think ur gonna struggle to undermine that in this situation even if u bring a wing... unless u are a complete prick!

Don't give up, I hear a lot of people on here giving that bullsh1t advice. You only give up if she is a headcase and completely incompatible with you or you have a better option, now you should have more then one girl at ALL times (unless in a committed relationship).

Winners don't quit.