Let me get your opinion on something ;)

Hey guys,

So i'm seeing this girl right now and yesterday our relationship status was brought up in convo. She considers us "more than friends" and we have a "great connection and have fun". But she doesn't wanna rush into a relationship just in case something comes her way and sweeps her off her feet.

I think I'm losing some attraction. When we kiss I almost always initiate and when we sit together it's me who has to pull us closer together. How can i vamp up more attraction so that she'll end up wanting to kiss me out of nowhere and want to sit closer to me without me trying. I feel like i'm almost acting needy and slipping a bit back to AFC, how can i make it so that I "sweep her off her feet" and make her want more. By the way we've only kissed and done light touching after a week.

M.

You're being a wuss.

Start dating 2-3 other girls and only make time for this one girl once or twice a week.

Maybe even cancel a date (or refuse one) because you are busy - but promise to make it up to her (you know how girls do that to guys)... but you never really make it up to her... lol

Also start doing other cool sh1t (play a sport, join a club, take dance lessons).

Thanks dude. So go for some scarcity by filling up my life with other activities.