Help Needed

Hi im new to all this, im not really good with girls but recently Ive been looking on the internet to try and make myself better on this and try and pick up tips, Ive have also listen to the David DeAngello Series and its put a lot of things in new light for me.

Anyway I have been texting this girl I meet online for a few months now and although we have met with her friend for a few drinks we still haven’t as such been on a 1st date together yet.

Ive tried a few times over the last month to fix a date but it never seems to go to plan so backed off a little not to look needy. Last week I thought I would go for it again and texted her saying to come out on Thursday for a few drinks. She couldn’t make Thursday and offered Sunday so without giving her all the power I agreed but said it would have to be at 6pm after the Football.

Anyway we texted for another day or so after agreeing to meet up but not really on the Friday and Saturday as we were both working, Not that I felt this was a big deal we were going to see each other Sunday anyway and it would give us something to chat about.

So Sunday comes and by 3pm I text her saying “I see you in town at 6:15 wheres best to meet you” to my surprise I got texts back saying “I didn’t know you still wanted to meet” and that “Ive made plans to see my mum now”.

I was pretty pissed off to be hosent I did try to say that we had made plans but she kept saying stuff like “How was I suppose to know and I haven’t heard from you in two days.”

I must admit I don’t think ive reacted well to this I tried to use some stuff from David DeAngello I learned but I feel Ive complety said the wrong stuff at the wrong time.

Ok well you chance with her is most likely gone. You acted very needy and gave her to much. Sometimes women Flake just cause they forgot or they got busy. You can not take it personal, which you did. Yea you want to and need to be alpha, but don't be a jerk. I mean really would you wantto go meet someone who just called you a pain in the a$$? I wouldn't. My suggestion is move on. Learn some more and address you inner game issues and find the next one. Take it as a learning experience and move on.

ouch she wanted to see her mom, and you called her pain in the arse. not good. I would just call her and apologize, I think being open and admitting one's mistake is an alpha quality.

text her something funny with role playing,

partially stolen from crobinson1 a texting genius:

"hey wifey pants! our busy schedules are putting a lot of pressure on our marriage. i almost went to get the divorce papers when you stood me up sunday but i came to my senses and decided to give it one more chance. plus i dont want to have to sell our house. so, what works better for you ____ or ______?"

give her two different days to choose from, if she calls you out about reacting poorly. tell her you turned down 3 things to do to keep your appt with her and when you make a plan you always stick to it and she should too. but you forgive her, plus it was a blessing in disguise because you ended up having a ton of fun on sunday anyway. (make up a story if necesary) gl go get it, stay cocky funny and not needy.

not a bad text plan. definitely sets a playful tone, is forward/direct and alpha. i mean that definitely is a good text and then ur taking the pressure off cause the choice of days. so she can do whatever works best. but yeah with some text game mastery you could come back from it. if anything i would suggest race de preists b4utxther program. absolutely amazing stuff. there are quite a few PUA's on here who have read it and there text game is amazing.

Cheers peeps I will give that a go tonight yesman if it doesnt work I think ive dicided now that I will walk away and learn from my mistakes.

agree if she doesnt respond, move on for sure. and if she ever hits u up down the road, or you run into her you can always joke again about the divorce.

let us know how it goes, good luck.