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Old 11-01-2010, 06:11 AM
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Default Freeze-out?

Ok, so basically I have a gf now (well, to be honest at the minute I'm not really sure what we are, hence this post) and I've been getting very AFC etc due to a bit of one-itis... after a small fall-out and weirdness last night and feeling a LJBF thing coming along, I know I need to put a stop to it asap cus I am killing the attraction here! I've read up on posts after searching 'Freeze-Out' and got loads of info from them (crob, tcomea2, prjav, all a great help) which has put my mind at ease about it all a bit. But basically I was wondering if anyone with experience of freeze-outs could shed some more light on them?

So far I have decided that I need to be like I was at the start.. be cocky-funny, just have fun, badly need to dhv again too as I can feel I'va become the chaser.. and I don't like it, everytihng has been turned upside down on me lol. I'm going to arrange a date tonight as we had planned to have a meal at this place she raves about.. so I'm going to go and be fun, kino to sexually escalate, tease and DHV like mad! lol.

All that relates back to the freeze-out stuff though.. should I still have the feeling that she isn't feeling it I'm thinking of freezing her out for the week until friday while she's at uni.. thing is though I'm not sure how to come back from it?? Like do I just act like I needed time to think, or be like I was busy, or she was giving weird vibes or some sh1t? Anyone who can give a general idea of how a freeze-out works? And whether it would work well in this situation?


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Old 11-01-2010, 08:45 AM
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Default Re: Freeze-out?

ok well if u guys were "dating" then there is nothing to worry about. Freeze Out are for girls who are on the fence with attraction and you need to up the attraction again. so the way a freeze out works is that you pretty much try ignoring them for a long time. and while ignoring them u usually create a new frame and develop a new interaction so when u come back you can up the attraction again and have a better chance at getting her. if she is starting to lose attraction you just need to show her a fun night and be sexual throughout the night and then consider fark closing her that night. with that you should be good. but you dont need to freeze out a girl that is "dating" you. ok and there is this text game technique to get her within the right mind set for a sexual night of just you two. you basically want it to feel 'intimate'. by that i mean just one on one. keep it sexual but by texting them your basically priming the emotions to be ready for a night just for you too. thats one thing about being amazing at sex. you need not be the best sexual technique in bed. you just need to be able to give her every type of emotional sex needed. ok ill give you an ex. when i get back from class. got to go. my hw is due. peace

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Old 11-01-2010, 11:28 AM
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ok so obviously you want to work the intimate type of sex with her. so when you decide to get a hangout where its just you two. send her text the night before that will prime her for the intimate sexual night.

"hey (nickname), i cant wait for tomorrow night. just us two, some drinks, and bucket loads of fun"
then just keep playing this primer with the whole "just us two" thing. it will make her get into an intimate mood and you will give her great sex that way. but too get her really attracted you also need to give her a dominant sex where you do what you want and then something different that will make your sex always be fun and different. sex in a public place always does great. but yeah i think u have her. just be playful, fun and definitely work ur Escalation really good

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Old 11-07-2010, 02:58 PM
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Default Re: Freeze-out?

Sorry took so long to reply crob, havn't been able to get on here for long. Went to see my gf (now I know the score btw lol) for the weekend and all went very well, thanks for the tips! I would be up for the outdoors, but she is pretty shy when it comes to that stuff so it's a no-go...for now anyways lol. And thanks for summing up what a Freeze Out is and how it works too!


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ok well i hope its going better bro.

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Old 11-08-2010, 06:18 PM
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Man oh man, you're not going to believe this but she broke it off with me! Was a difficult one though, distance, money and studies all had a part to play... thanks for the good luck, but it wasn't quite good enough lol :P Think I'm taking it suprisingly well though... just keeping my mind on some fresh sarging this weekend!


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yeah no biggy. long distance takes the right kind of people to make it work.

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